My husband might be cheating on me....
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Anonymous
| I'm 6 months pregnant and I think my husband might be cheating on me. He and I haven't been intimate in a long while and he is showing very little interest in me. What do I do? I come from a divorced home and I know that I would never get a divorce. Do I confront him? Do I just assume that these are my suspicions? Does it matter if I know for sure? |
Anonymous
| Do you have reason to believe this other than his lack of sexual interest? Has he changed his schedule or habits (more secretive, new "hobbies")? Lack of sexual interest in a pregnant woman is pretty common in and of itself and doesn't equal cheating or divorce. |
Anonymous
| It's a really strong feeling. And he has been more secretive and out of the house more then he used to be. He is also drinking more then he did. |
Anonymous
| Have you asked him? "Honey, you don't seem interested in me right now sexually. It hurts my feelings. What is going on?" |
Anonymous
| I come from a divorced home and would get divorced myself in necessary.My parents divorcing saved my sanity. |
Anonymous
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My H cheated on me when I was pregnant, it very common, especially on the 2nd pregnancy. Who knew.
Don't confront him. Go to a divorce lawyer, get your thing (money) in order. Hire a PI, get evidence. Kick his butt to the curb. He may be just be freaking out over the responsibility. Counseling may help, if you are interested. I am sorry, good luck... Be careful of PPD. |
Anonymous
That's such crap. PP, you have no idea based on what she wrote that the guy is cheating, but you still suggest contacting a divorce lawyer and kicking his butt to the curb? What if he's struggling at work and with a new baby on the way, having a hard time keeping his shit together? Maybe he doesn't want to bring this up with his wife while she's pregnant? I have no idea, but it's just as plausible as him cheating. To OP: as noted, try talking to him before you file divorce papers... |
Anonymous
She can't "kick his butt to the curb" even if he is cheating, and there's no evidence he is other than the fact that he doesn't appear interested in sex with his pregnant wife. Maybe he just finds her weight gain unattractive. |
Anonymous
| Maybe he has developed a drinking problem - causes secrecy, unexplained absences, etc as well and soap says he is drinking more. |
Anonymous
| He is distant towards you. This does not mean he is having sex with another person. Try talking to him about his distance. It can be related to anything. All these post should not posted unless you talked with your husband. Then we can give advice. Until then, the advice will always be, talk to him. |
Anonymous
The PI will figure out if he is cheating, if not skip step "butt to curb" and get some help. No sex in months, WTF. |
Anonymous
Yes. Actually she can. It is one of the reasons ( along with abuse) the you can kick somebody to the curb during a separation. Two of my friend go kicked to the curb when they were caught cheating. Stay at home moms, kicked out of their house and given a crap apartment to live in. Hence the see a divorce lawyer. It is so crazy how little people know about the marriage laws and divorce laws. My favorite is that spouses think they have a right to their spouses money, it all goes into one big pot to be shared equally. Nope! |
Anonymous
| OP, do you happen to live in a new construction large house in a new estate? |
Anonymous
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Maybe he has a hang-up about having sex while pregnant. My DH is like this. We don't have sex while I'm pregnant. He's never cheated on me though, he's just has a severe hang-up about that.
Is this your first baby? Maybe he's freaking out a little inside about it. |
Anonymous
Wouldn't that be some craziness?! |