For women- has your husband/boyfriend ever asked you about your ex. boyfriends or ex husband?

[Anonymous]

Details? Asked your friends? I just noticed that my husband never did, well once when dating why I was divorced. I don't remember exactly, I think even then I was the one who shared that I was married before to clear the air. We met on match.com so it was listed on my post. We've been married ten years now. I don't know why it hit me now to notice. I had asked him a question about when he was young and realized he never asked anything about how I grew up. Of course I have shared things on my own but he has never asked.

[Anonymous]

My husband has not ever really asked much about past relationships outside of a few questions and "sharing talk" in the dating period. He's not a jealous person and I don't think he lingers on the past in that manner. We've talked a lot about growing up.

I certainly would not think it appropriate of him to ask my friends.

Does he ask about your feelings? Do you have a "best friend" relationship?

[Anonymous]

My DH doesn't really want to know about my past relationships. I've shared some things with him, but he doesn't really want to know and never asks.
We do talk a lot about our childhoods, but both have psych backgrounds so that comes naturally to us.

[Anonymous]

He asked early on in the relationship. He had wanted to marty a virgin

[Anonymous]

He may be afraid of telling you his past

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He may be afraid of telling you his past

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He may be afraid of telling you his past

+1

+2 or he really doesn't care and probably believes you feel the same.

[Anonymous]

My DH has asked me multiple things, but he's pretty damn nosey. And I've only had a couple of relationships prior to ours.

[Anonymous]

My DH vaguely knows of some long term relationships I had before him - we got married at 33. He has met some of my exes and I have met some of his because we are acquaintances who run into each other through mutual friends a few times a year. My DH however has never asked me details of those relationships or how many people I've had sex with before him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH vaguely knows of some long term relationships I had before him - we got married at 33. He has met some of my exes and I have met some of his because we are acquaintances who run into each other through mutual friends a few times a year. My DH however has never asked me details of those relationships or how many people I've had sex with before him.

And we talk about our childhood all the time - Christmas memories, traditions, favorite vacations, etc. We're about to have a child and since we started trying we've been talking about the type of priorities we'd like to have, the type of experiences we'd like to provide.