Secondary infertility and adoption
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Anonymous
| For families that experienced secondary infertility and went on to adopt a child, is the love you feel for your adopted child(ren) the same as the love you feel for your genetic offspring? Is the love as strong? Do you think your kids feel equally loved? |
Anonymous
| I think you should post in general parenting. I would like to know this too. |
Anonymous
| I think there is a long, possibly heated, thread about this in Parenting - Special Concerns. |
Anonymous
| 18:06 again. Please disregard my above post. There is a thread about regretting adoption (or not), and the issue of loving biological vs adopted children isn't the main issue discussed. You may get some good responses on that board with a new post. |
Anonymous
| A friend who was in this situation once made the comment that, as the adoption process was longer and had more ups/ downs than did her pregnancy, it actually made her feel MORE initial love, gratitude, etc. for her second child, when she finally arrived. |