Subjective capsule reviews of MD private elementary schools

Anonymous
Over the past two years we visited a host of MoCo MD private schools, some of them multiple times, in search of the perfect school for first and later second grade. Because of where we live, we generally looked at schools north of the beltway, stretching far out into northern MoCo. In the process (I’m realizing as I read these boards) we became pretty substantial resources on what the various schools have to offer – everything from the “specials” (art, music, PE, etc.) available, to their general approach to academics, to their physical environments, to their admissions processes, to the teaching styles/methods observable during visits, to how impressive is the scholarly work adorning the walls, and so forth.

I’m offering capsule summaries of the various schools we visited in the hopes that it might be useful to some readers. They are intended as information for prospective parents only, and are not intended to argue against others’ contrary impressions of these schools.

First – the child. The right school is largely a function of the child’s needs. Ours is academically strong across the board and particularly attracted to performance opportunities. Her challenges were on the social side – we wanted a school where she could have a somewhat protected social environment and occasional teacher intervention/facilitation if an issue arose, for example, on the playground (you’ll see below that we cast the net pretty wide in terms of the types of schools we visited). We also wanted a school that was not only academically challenging but allowing for a high degree of individualization in the curriculum. The right teaching style was also important to us – we valued positive encouragement, flexibility of method, and not allowing dominant personalities to take over the classroom.

The following is a rough ranking of how much we liked the schools we visited, from most to least. Again, these are subjective and reflect the alignment between a particular child and the school. You may have a different set of priorities.

The first four are the schools I would have little hesitation in recommending to parents in similar situations:

The Barnesville School – OK, some of you have heard me sing its praises before, but it goes atop this list since we chose it and so far it indeed appears to be our dream school. We love the strong academic instruction, the teachers are fantastic, and the school administration is incredibly flexible and responsive whenever something comes up. The classes are small but the school is large enough to offer rewarding performance opportunities. The building is very nice, and the outdoor playground and play areas are the best we found. It feels like being part of an extended family; parent volunteerism is rampant, and one feels like other parents and teachers are always looking out for your child. The kids there are quite happy. OK, I could go on, but enough.

St. Andrews (SAES) – impressed us as an up-and-coming school. The teacher we observed impressed us favorably, as did the head of school. Seems well able to individualize to student needs, and social/emotional thinking is a part of the classroom curriculum. Demonstrated to us various ways in which the teaching methods reflect their research findings concerning how kids learn best. Lower school campus just OK; upper school one (3rd grade begins there next year) much nicer.

Norwood – Clearly a strong school on a lovely campus. We thought the academics looked good, there was some commitment to teaching what it means to be part of a community, and we found the strong arts focus especially seductive given our child’s interests. Nothing bad to say about it per se other than that they were not able to offer quite the same level of individualization that Barnesville and St. Andrews offered. Norwood seems to rely on a group of kids entering each year with a comparable array of aptitudes so they do a bit less flexing to meet individual family needs.

Sandy Spring Friends (SSFS) – Clearly behind the first three in terms of how attractive we found it, but still a perfectly good school. Was willing to spend a fair amount of time answering questions during the admissions process (more than Norwood), and many parents might like the separate-buildings “camp” feel of the place in nice natural surroundings. It wasn’t the right fit for us – we didn’t see a teacher whose style we particularly liked, and the administration didn’t seem used to the same frequency of parent-school communication that we were looking for, but others who are comfortable taking a more “hands off” approach to their child’s schooling might like it better.

OK, the next five were OK but each had something about them that made them the wrong choice for us:

Harbor – The biggest strikes against Harbor were that they only went up to 2nd grade (forcing an almost immediate further placement decision) and their smallness precluded the sorts of school performance opportunities we hoped for. That said, they were very accepting of different learning styles and offered an impressive array of specials for their size, including violin lessons, Spanish, etc; the school’s emphasis on early childhood education has its upsides, too. We know other parents there; one set is very happy with it, and other less so, though the ones who are less happy have still chosen to stay.

New Jewish School – Well, it no longer exists. Closed. And it was very small. We were favorably impressed by the teaching methods there, though.

McLean – Visited twice, got thorough tours both times, the kids seem very happy there. Nice environment, many activities to offer. Having said that, McLean definitely assumes that if you are coming in the door, your child must have a learning issue (each time we were quizzed closely on what academic challenge was the reason for our visiting). If your child is strong everywhere academically but just needs some help on the social side, they’re not as good a fit. The school seems to focus on helping with certain very specific learning challenges.

Lone Oak Montessori – We never thought Montessori was for us, but of all the Montessori programs this was the one that made us take the closest look. The teacher made a strong impression, they seem to offer decent opportunities in the arts, and expressed marvelous flexibility in terms of where we wanted the focus in the classroom. Head of school very nice and responsive. But extremely small, and the physical environment was a little depressing (no real playground to speak of).

Christ Episcopal (CES) – Very warm, friendly reception, and seemed to offer small-ish classes, fair amount of individual attention. We weren’t crazy about the physical setting, the lack of strong arts opportunities, or the teaching/disciplinary methods (not that they were bad, they just didn’t fit our child).

Then there were five schools that just didn’t fit at all:

Charles E. Smith – seems like a perfectly good school, but the 40-45% share of time spent on Judaic studies was too high for us, and the teaching methods involved far too much frontal teaching, school felt very big, not as much potential for individualized learning methods.

Feynman – a school for the gifted, but extremely small, and didn’t offer as much as we felt was needed in terms of PE or the arts. Also the presentation focused too much on the superficially-impressive things the kids were doing rather than on how their teaching methods work for individual styles.

TJ Prep -- very much liked the teacher there but it was just too small for us; would have broken our child’s heart to be spending each day in those little rooms with only a few kids!

Seneca Academy – we attended there previously and did not have a good experience; found them inflexible in dealing with kids who were a little bit quirky (even if they were cheerful, hard-working, successful students). Surprisingly cold and uncaring.

Maddux – Probably our worst experience, and we had it two times; admissions process is disorganized, random and unresponsive – little rhyme or reason in how they treat a prospective family – even getting calls returned or acknowledged was nearly impossible. Open Houses were cattle calls and it was hard to get any questions answered unless one was ready to interrupt and talk over everyone else. We know people who have kids there and like it but it’s basically a lottery whether they treat you even with passable manners – we verified this not just one year but two and ultimately wrote them off as an unprofessional operation.

There, those are our highly subjective reviews of 14 MD private schools we visited. Happy to answer any questions about any of these experiences. Contrary opinions are of course welcome.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:

Charles E. Smith – seems like a perfectly good school, but the 40-45% share of time spent on Judaic studies was too high for us, and the teaching methods involved far too much frontal teaching, school felt very big, not as much potential for individualized learning methods.



This is an amazing review. Thank you for taking the time to summarize a lot of schools that many people don't take a hard look at. What did you mean by CESJDS has too much frontal teaching? My DD is there now and I love it for her. My son has some ADHD issues and I'm not sure this will be the right place for him though. I'm just starting to look at other options. I'm sad that the New Jewish School closed.
Anonymous
Out of curiosity, you looked at Jewish and Christian schools, are you raising your child both/neither? If you are Christian, for example, wouldn't it be confusing to send a child to CESJDS?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

Charles E. Smith – seems like a perfectly good school, but the 40-45% share of time spent on Judaic studies was too high for us, and the teaching methods involved far too much frontal teaching, school felt very big, not as much potential for individualized learning methods.



This is an amazing review. Thank you for taking the time to summarize a lot of schools that many people don't take a hard look at. What did you mean by CESJDS has too much frontal teaching? My DD is there now and I love it for her. My son has some ADHD issues and I'm not sure this will be the right place for him though. I'm just starting to look at other options. I'm sad that the New Jewish School closed.


Thank you, I'm glad this was helpful.

Re frontal teaching -- we visited a number of schools where kids work at stations around the classroom and are often standing or walking around rather than sitting and listening. For our child the station-to-station approach was preferable because she tends to like to move around when processing information, and she also tends to process when involving her whole body, especially her hands, rather than just listening. During my CES visit I noted more classrooms that involved the teacher standing at the front of a room speaking to a fairly large class of kids seated at desks all facing the front. I'm sure this works fine for many kids, but was not optimal for us.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Out of curiosity, you looked at Jewish and Christian schools, are you raising your child both/neither? If you are Christian, for example, wouldn't it be confusing to send a child to CESJDS?


She has parents on each side and so we were able to look at schools of both types. For us a religious affiliation was a downside but not a disqualifier -- it was not a downside because we had any problem with that education being presented, but only if it took time away from other stuff we knew we needed more of. The schools with a smaller religious element were better fits for us than the ones where it took up a larger portion of the classroom day.
Anonymous
TJ Prep closed, didn't it?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:TJ Prep closed, didn't it?


I don't know. It seems quite possible (the website that used to be theirs no longer seems to have any info about the school). It was extremely small (implying very little revenue coming in) so I would not be surprised.
Anonymous
Wow, what interests me the most is the timing of this post (majorly into admission season and choosing) along with the location of the "worst schools". Now My child does not attend any of these, but the bottom three seem to be the closest to Barnesville, which I feel is a good school, but there are at least 5 on that list that are far superior in every way.

I know Barnesville is struggling along with several other schools to stay open. The name change was very clever, but at the end of the day there is nothing overly special about Barnesville or most of these other schools. That's not a knock by any stretch, it's just that most MoCo schools are preceived and in some cases truly are second class schools compared to the Big 3(gag!) for one reason...$$$$$

I have no problem with someone talking about how great their school is, but doing it in this fashion is ________________(fill in the blank)
Anonymous
Curious what you didn't like about your public school? We did a DC private before switching to MCPS and wished we had switched earlier.
Anonymous
What are these teaching methods you mention? How do you know what methods would be best for your child? If you are not an educator, this entire thread is bogus.

I'm so sick of parents thinking they 'know education'. They don't and neither do you.
Anonymous
I actually was very impressed with the Maddux School. Reserving a spot was easy for a school tour; made a phone call; the call was returned. Not sure why you had difficulty. The director gave an extremely detailed presentation to a small group of parents, then we took a tour.
Anonymous
Harbor was a waste of money for us. I'm glad the HOS left. She was so full of crap.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I actually was very impressed with the Maddux School. Reserving a spot was easy for a school tour; made a phone call; the call was returned. Not sure why you had difficulty. The director gave an extremely detailed presentation to a small group of parents, then we took a tour.


I had the same experience as the OP. I called 3x over a two week period and sent an email to both the director and the asst director. None of my communications were returned. Finally I just showed up for the open house. I was impressed with the school, the teachers and the curriculum but the admin leaves a lot to be desired. I also agree with the PP about the Q &A piece of the tour. I'm on the fence about applying. I realize that once I get through the admissions process I might never interact with the admin staff again, but it still sets a negative tone for me about the school.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I actually was very impressed with the Maddux School. Reserving a spot was easy for a school tour; made a phone call; the call was returned. Not sure why you had difficulty. The director gave an extremely detailed presentation to a small group of parents, then we took a tour.


I had the same experience as the OP. I called 3x over a two week period and sent an email to both the director and the asst director. None of my communications were returned. Finally I just showed up for the open house. I was impressed with the school, the teachers and the curriculum but the admin leaves a lot to be desired. I also agree with the PP about the Q &A piece of the tour. I'm on the fence about applying. I realize that once I get through the admissions process I might never interact with the admin staff again, but it still sets a negative tone for me about the school.


I'm another person who didn't get a call back from Maddux administrators until a month after my original call. We'd long since moved on. Left a bad taste in my mouth about Maddux.
Anonymous
Wow! I am impressed that you took that many tours.
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