Sex with Wife while her Parent sick
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Anonymous
| Wife's parent had a stroke. When is the appropriate time to have sex. He is not out of danger. She is obviously pre-occupied. |
Anonymous
| Not now. |
Anonymous
| WTF |
Anonymous
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10:11 pm precisely.
Serious - follow her lead. Some people like to have sex and bond as it is comforting during times of crisis/stress and grief. Others don't. Give her a back rub or a long hug and just hold her and let her know you are there for her during this difficult time. If she takes it further, go with it. |
Anonymous
| Appreciate the feedback. OP. |
Anonymous
| Probably not until they've stabilized from the stroke. |
Anonymous
When she feels like it. |
Anonymous
| Depends in your DW. Some turn to sex in times of crisis and some turn away. Follow her lead. |
Anonymous
Yes. This could really inspire a "Thread Titles That Make You Say WTF" |
Anonymous
| In the mouth |
Anonymous
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As in stroke 2 days ago, or stroke 2 weeks ago?
2 days - wait and take her lead. 2 weeks - try to initiate and see where it goes. My dad had a stroke. He was in the hospital for months. There seriously wasn't a need to not have sex after the initial shock wore off. |
Anonymous
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DW here. In any crisis situation, at the end of the day, I want to be with DH. If we are not exhausted, I would like to have sex. I feel close to him during sex and touching him anytime makes me feel that everything will be ok.
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Anonymous
| My husband just took a massive shit. When is an appropriate time to have sex? |
Anonymous
You are one pathetic individual. |
Anonymous
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I had sex when I was worried about my sick father. I felt kind of disconnected with the distraction. He died a few months ago and I haven't had sex since. I'm sure I'll feel up to it when I'm feeling more like myself.
I think you should try to initiate. Just be understanding if she's not up for it. |