My sixth grader is incredibly anti school and does the absolute minimum; in elementary school he refused to do any of his projects, which was the only homework. At Basis, he spent most of 5th grade playing video games and I haven't seen him do a minute of schoolwork this year. The thing is, he learns enough and does enough work at school that he's passing, with not completely awful grades. For us, that's success. The bare minimum at Basis is adequate, which I don't think is true at most other schools. Kids with higher standards might choose to do more work. |
You are so triggered? If you have such a fragile psyche, why are you posting here? You just come across as insecure and defensive. |
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We chose BASIS and are really happy with the choice.
Congrats to incoming 5th graders! |
You rock, PP. Most honest post on this thread. I appreciate how you're not claiming that BASIS offers the sun, the moon and the stars academically, that your kid is a superstar, and that anybody who's had a different experience to yours at BASIS is full of it. |
You unearth a benign post from several pages back to go at the PP. Try a new tact to advocate for BASIS. |
We’re a very happy BASIS family with two high-achieving BASIS kids. That said, I appreciate this post, as I have a third kid who’s not academically inclined and who does the bare minimum (sometimes less) in school. Despite the sibling preference and the ease that would come from having all three at the same school, we opted not to send our youngest to BASIS. We were concerned that the bare minimum wouldn’t be enough, that BASIS would be an unhappy experience, and that consistently underperforming relative to one’s peers would be bad for self-esteem. Our child also did not want to go. If I had felt that coasting along on minimum effort would have led to consistently passing grades, maybe we would have made a different decision. |
Ok. Your point it? You took the time to chime in to say that if you effectively have your kid in school school 7 days a week and pay for tutors and teachers on the side then Basis (or any school) isn't a step up? Would you also like to share that your kid has been in USA Gymnastics since the age of 3, attends Olympic training camps in TX and competed at the Junior Worlds and you want everyone to know that gym class at Wilson isn't very challenging? I assume you were going for "humble brag". You landed instead on something that rhymes - "d-bag". |
"You are so triggered" is how children deflect blame or consequences for their actions. It places the blame on the person responding to the perceived aggression and deflects any consideration of whether the original actor was out of line. If I smack you in the face and you scream at me I could respond with "you are so triggered." Triggered is another way to say "angry" or "advocating for yourself". Adults trying to sound hip ought not use terms they don't understand. |
I think that's something that parents do need to consider. BASIS does work the kids hard. DS is a BASIS grad, started in 5th and is now in college. He is a very high performing but special needs kid, still managed to do quite well on 13 APs and got high grades and a good SAT score which got him into a prestigious college with a generous scholarship. But it was a lot of work, and even now he's still in some ways working through a level of academic burnout in college and feels like he lacked a chunk of the social and non-academic side of school due to all of the work (compounded by the pandemic). BASIS works its kids hard - some parents who already have tutors and supports will, I'm sure, do quite fine - but there will also be kids who maybe easily got straight A's in their DCPS ES who will find BASIS a bit lot more challenging. |
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I’m the PP who cancelled many activities the first year. My child had barely any homework to be done at home the first couple years. She was just busier at school than she was used to, so she had to get used to it.
On an unrelated note, when thinking about facilities, I think it helps to think outside the building. Obviously the building is way too small and not great. On the other hand, the kids have access to an amazing neighborhood. Starting in 8th grade, they leave campus for lunch, eating at the navy memorial, portrait gallery, roof of the MLK library, etc. They exercise on the Mall. They all know how to reserve study rooms at the incredibly well renovated library less than 2 blocks away. They have access to so much more than just the crowded building, and they use it. |
This thread has become ridiculously unpleasant. PP above makes a fair point: don't believe the hype. All 5th graders aren't going to find the BASIS workload intimidating, not in a Metro area where high-achieving families are a dime a dozen. The fact that a new BASIS student attended a DC public ES through 4th grade doesn't necessarily mean that they're not used to hard work and high standards. The point seems to be that BASIS exceptionalism gets.....tiresome. |
There is no way that was your takeaway from what they posted. You clearly have an issue with Basis that through which you view all other posts. Seriously, someone posted that they do school 7 days a week and pay for tutors and external teachers and as a consequence Basis wasn't hard...and from that you take that Basis isn't that great a school? Seriously? |
lol, great kid. working harder does not mean working smarter! does he seem to enjoy school though? do the tests stress him out? |
that’s pretty cool! it’s an incredibly unique location despite its limitations. |
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Basis is a good fit for some, not so good for others.
The real problem in the DMV are the parents who are too insecure about themselves and their choices, and so need to trash anyone who isn’t doing exactly what they are doing. No school will fix that type of toxic insecurity. |