This is a no right?
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Anonymous
| Met a guy at a family event this weekend. I have been married for ages but he definitely was making eye contact, wanted to dance, etc. I actually love my hisband but was of course flattered/intrigued. He loves states away. This morning I get on Facebook and there is a friend request from him. This is a no right? Wouldn't go anywhere but I still should just ignore? |
Anonymous
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Ignore it. Don't play with fire.
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Anonymous
| Loves/lives -- bad mistake! |
Anonymous
| If you have to ask, it's a no. And I suspect you know that. |
Anonymous
| I do. Just want another voice of reason. |
Anonymous
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Come on, what's the worst that could happen? OK, the best that could happen is you get all flirty with this guy, nothing happens and you get a little ego boost. Not much "ceiling" in this situation but lots of potential downside.
No. |
Anonymous
Definitely no. |
Anonymous
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Don't. You know if you caught your husband chit chatting/flirting online you would have a fit.
But it'll be your divorce. Knock yourself out. |
Anonymous
| If you can keep it on the down low, it's worth the experience. Just once or twice is OK. |
Anonymous
Freudian slip?! |
Anonymous
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Ditto NO.
When answering these types of questions, you should reverse the scenario and ask, "How would I feel if my husband did this?" If your husband flirted with someone and friended her on Facebook, would you be upset? If that developed an outlet for chats and further meet ups, would you be upset? You should not friend this guy because there is no upside except a selfish need to stroke your ego. The downside is huge and could cause a serious breach of trust and fidelity in your marriage. |
Anonymous
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Or you could get a nice lay on the side?
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Anonymous
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What do you have to lose?
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Anonymous
| Right. You love your husband. Don't go there. |
Anonymous
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Ignore it.
Unless or course....You're ready to swim with the sharks. |