If you are in your late thirties/early forties with kids and divorced, why did you get divorced?? |
Ex-wife had an addiction issue that I didn't recognize until after the wedding and was unwilling to get help. |
PP - Sorry. Missed the "with kids." No kids involved. |
I had to get divorced. My ex used unnecessary punctuation. I couldn't raise my kids with someone like that. |
MF beat on me, divorce is the best thing I did for myself and my kid. |
Ex checked out emotionally once we had a child. Uninterested in parenting or being a family. He partied, cheated, I dumped him. |
exW had at least an EA and that has turned into a 'real' relationship post-divorce. never was the same person actually postpartum.
one DC who was 3 at the time and is a very well adjusted kid today and thriving in her K class. |