it would be gross and unethical if you have leverage and not help someone to jump start their careers. |
? dp.. no one would say not using nepotism is "gross and unethical". You have a weird moral compass. |
^^the entrenched, MSPB-cloaked unethical Fed is a definite thing
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+1. I always try to help students and the children of friends and family. I write letters and call friends |
+1. also how does a fed afford Sidwell? |
Bump |
Sounds like big school grads did ok |
She’s an SES. They make good money. Also you don’t know what the father does. My parents were both Feds and sent me to a top NWDC private. |
Doesn’t change the fact that this kid now had a job that he is unqualified for against countless applicants more qualified. No does it change how that will negatively impact the team and projects he will not be working on. |
My Desc 2023 CS Major just got a job! |
This easy glorification of "the trades" as this great solution--always rubs me wrong--I have many tradespeople in my family, grew up around them, respect them plenty. It can be a viable option for some people, but there are lot of downsides that you don't see if you only talk to the middle-aged person who has sustained it all and now runs a business. Sure there are success stories like there are in any profession, but most don't own a successful business--you're seeing the businesses that made it, not all the ones that failed. It's generally a hard life, you get physical injuries and just run down with time. A lot of the smart talented tradespeople I know, who worked in well-off areas, had businesses that never took off, or did okay for a time then were hit by changes in supply costs, labor costs, demand, competition, injuries/chronic ailments etc. There are a lot of famines of work and there's a natural cap on how much you can take advantage of the feast. These days with all the social media ratings etc. residential tradespeople are especially stressed because they have to manage reviews (and there are some unethical people who will use reviews/social media to blackmail tradespeople). As for going back to college after starting a trade (often to pick up the business skills needed), a lot of them find it very rough after not using their brains in that way for a several years even if they were once more academically inclined. |
Congrats! |
Trades also destroy your body within two decades. You gotta make a lot of $$ early and be able to save it for your later years. Or have the management skills to launch your own business and bring on younger people when your back and knees give out. |
I think there is also too much emphasis on residential trades people, while there are many welders, electricians, etc working for large companies and working 9-5 (+ overtime) jobs. Going the small business route may be very lucrative for a very small percentage…but it’s not great for most. |
That's not the case, I have a T10 kid and his CS friends whose parents are not connected are struggling as well. Luckily he is not a CS major! |