Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How does OP have no savings? You don’t have any retirement or stocks or college savings for your kids??
I am not sure if OP is just really bad with money or her kids have some severe health problems. I wonder if her kids health is what got her laid off. I know moms who stay home to take care of their high special needs children. Also have a friend who works and uses all her earnings for expensive therapies for her autistic son.
Op here. Of course we have 529s, my husband has a pension, i have 401k, I’m a former fed and have a TSP. I looked into getting a TSP loan but it’s not an option if you’re not an employee anymore. We can’t borrow against my husbands pension. I don’t know if taking money out of the 529s is an option but I assume it would entail huge penalties if it’s even possible.
We just don’t have liquid cash we can tap into. We did, but it’s been wiped out due to a few recent setbacks that have come one on top of another.