What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.

How does this even start?

When she was 13.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I slept with my dad’s best friend when i was 19 and he about 45. Just twice.

Do you feel creepy that he was plotting on having sex with you when you were a child? What a creep!

DP
Actually I had a very, very similar experience myself. Almost same ages and circumstances. I initiated the trysts myself, he merely obliged. I’d had such horrible first sexual experiences with two prior boyfriends that I was on the verge of having an anxiety disorder over it. One of my father’s friends had a reputation as quite a lady’s man, and I approached him and explained my predicament and asked him to help me. I remember asking something to the effect of “can you please show me what GOOD sex is supposed to be like?” or something equally dorky sounding.

He was hesitant at first but I was very insistent and eventually he relented. We had several encounters over a few weeks and he rocked my world every time. Now I not only had a benchmark of what a good lover was like, but I also discovered what I enjoyed, w how to ask for it and enjoy it. Looking back, it was probably one of the smartest things I ever did. I’m sure he enjoyed himself as well, although I’d guess he didn’t get nearly as much out of it as I did.

Tell me there was abuse in your childhood without telling me...

[Anonymous]

I have a little feeling that I was called to be a nun and ignored it. I am not super religious, but feel like I may have been called.

[Anonymous]

people who have slept with your spouse's friend/parent/brother - just tell your spouse. Chances are, they suspect something and you're ok gaslighting them because you're a coward who cant' face consequences.
How are you ok being in a relationship and loved based on lies?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When my then gf- now wife- went away on business for three weeks, I stopped by her group house to retrieve a work bag. Long story short, I end up sleeping with her best friend from childhood/ housemate about a half dozen times over those weeks.

It ended the day she got back and it never reoccurred. Been married 17 years and vacation every summer with the other woman and her husband and kids in the OBX.

You are so evil.

[Anonymous]

I sabotaged a high school senior’s college admissions by writing admissions officers anonymously about his criminal history and school disciplinary record for sexual assault and physical assault.

He got into one school I didn’t know he was applying to. I made fake social media accounts and email addresses and turned his friends and girlfriends against him using very specific private information. I sat back for a couple of years and was shocked that my information helped (really it was my introduction of them to each other) and they filed a complaint with the university for sexual and physical assault and he got expelled.

To this day, I told no one not even my DH.

[Anonymous]

Voted for Trump. My husband doesn’t even know.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DH & I are in a poly quad and have been for years.

Same!

How does this work?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I sabotaged a high school senior’s college admissions by writing admissions officers anonymously about his criminal history and school disciplinary record for sexual assault and physical assault.

He got into one school I didn’t know he was applying to. I made fake social media accounts and email addresses and turned his friends and girlfriends against him using very specific private information. I sat back for a couple of years and was shocked that my information helped (really it was my introduction of them to each other) and they filed a complaint with the university for sexual and physical assault and he got expelled.

To this day, I told no one not even my DH.

Who was that young man to you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abortion which to this day I regret - 25 years later.

Why do you regret it?

DP. I regret mine too. It really hit me after having kids.

[Anonymous]

I sabotaged a high school senior’s college admissions by writing admissions officers anonymously about his criminal history and school disciplinary record for sexual assault and physical assault.

He got into one school I didn’t know he was applying to. I made fake social media accounts and email addresses and turned his friends and girlfriends against him using very specific private information. I sat back for a couple of years and was shocked that my information helped (really it was my introduction of them to each other) and they filed a complaint with the university for sexual and physical assault and he got expelled.

To this day, I told no one not even my DH.

This is next level messed up and wrong, and you know it and that's why you have not told anyone - because no mature adult would be ok with how you handled whatever issues you. had with this kid. Are you the parent from Sidwell Friends who called the admissions offices on a kid? You need therapy, badly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I sabotaged a high school senior’s college admissions by writing admissions officers anonymously about his criminal history and school disciplinary record for sexual assault and physical assault.

He got into one school I didn’t know he was applying to. I made fake social media accounts and email addresses and turned his friends and girlfriends against him using very specific private information. I sat back for a couple of years and was shocked that my information helped (really it was my introduction of them to each other) and they filed a complaint with the university for sexual and physical assault and he got expelled.

To this day, I told no one not even my DH.

This is next level messed up and wrong, and you know it and that's why you have not told anyone - because no mature adult would be ok with how you handled whatever issues you. had with this kid. Are you the parent from Sidwell Friends who called the admissions offices on a kid? You need therapy, badly.

Nah.. if someone was responsible for sexually assaulting my daughter in HS, I’d burn villages down and salt their fields to get revenge. This is relatively mild.

[Anonymous]

I covered up sexual assault that occurred on a cruise line my wife’s family’s company owns. I had their cousin shred tons of documents related to it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I covered up sexual assault that occurred on a cruise line my wife’s family’s company owns. I had their cousin shred tons of documents related to it.

Tom W is that you?

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t have a bachelors degree. I’m not that many credits short and I do have an AA degree, but at this point in my life (at 43) I am not going back to $chool.

I lied on my resume from about 2002 - 2008 and got my career off the ground. If an employer had me fill out an official application, I would only list the AA degree. Never got caught because the resume got me the interview and I guess I always passed the bg check because I didn’t lie on the official paperwork.

Now I completely leave off education and go on my two decades of experience. And never had any student loan debt.

What do you do? And what baxheors degree did you list

I work in IT management…started out as a developer though. Pretty easy field to get away with something like this as opposed to say, nursing!

My major was computer science so that’s what I would list, but the AA that I got was just my generals.

This is bonkers, my friend same age did the same. Finance degree.

Apparent underachiever with Master's degree here. Having such a hard time finding a job right now and a temp agency today told me it was great I had a BA (of course I don't mention my MA) and that if hired they will do a background check plus check education records. This world is nuts.