And? Does your boss lay out the daily agenda a full semester in advance? Maybe, but probably not. More likely you are given general goals and then weekly (or more frequent) updates and directions. And do you have a personal manager helping you keep track of your tasks and scheduling? Probably not. Somehow, you (hopefully) managed to acquire the executive functioning necessary to show up, pay attention, make your own time-management plans and and execute. So why not give your kid that same opportunity? You can complain when the teacher has no system, and everyone in the class is getting zeros on the assignments nobody was given. Until that happens, you need to take responsibility for teaching your kid how to keep an assignment tracker, how to review said tracker daily to make sure work is getting completed, and how to budget their time so they turn in their work when it's due. These are trainable skills, and it's your job as the parent to train your kid. Your teacher is providing the practice area, not the handholding. |
| I guess PP never had a kid miss days of school dues to illness. |
Why? wrist deformity? Terrible, you say... Really? Didn't you do this as a kid and survive? God forbid your kid have to log off and actually focus on an on-paper task without eleventy digital distractions. Sorry for your not-loss; your kid's gonna be okay.
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I guess your kid has no friends and can't figure out how to ask them for notes? The assignments are typically online. If you need papers, ask. Teach your kid to advocate for themselves. This is a pathetic excuse. And yes, my kids have missed school. They figured this out. Yours can too. |
If someone at work is having trouble with the assignment, I expect them to reach out for help. I expect the person who was solicited to make time and with them. I hate when people make half analogies. If you are going to compare school to work, then follow through. |
I guess your kids’ classes are so easy they didn’t need to be taught a lesson. I guess you don’t need a teacher at all. |
Yes, mine have, and the process for doing so was meeting with the teacher during lunch or before school. |
My kids are straight A students in APs, but go off. They got taught their lessons. They showed up, paid attention, and got the education they expected. And when they were sick, they called friends, got notes, got on Khan Academy or other sites and got caught up. This isn't hard. |
You realize we're not talking about all your kids missing class for legitimate reasons here, right? You do realize that most of the wankers whinging on this thread about "why won't the teachers give up more of their time?!" have jerk kids who slack in class and then expect extra attention so they can get a padded grade they didn't earn. |
A peer, sure. But even that only goes so far. And if it's an occasional and reciprocal "hey, I was out. can you help me get caught up?" that's very different from knowing that Stacy was online, shopping all day, and Steve comes in hungover and unprepared for the job he probably padded his resume to get, and being expected to make time to help them do what they could've and should've done for themselves. Since you needed it spelled out for you... |
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Look, I don’t know if I just got lucky, but both my kids had excellent teachers who were always willing to help out the motivated students. Both my kids had fantastic relationships with many of their teachers and I am so appreciative of all of their hard work and dedication.
But I don’t blame the teachers for being super frustrated at all for the ridiculous pressures they are put under with the barely there students. If students don’t show up, they should fail. PPW’s can help with the reasoning, but teachers should focus on teaching. I think the new grading standards will help with this. But clearly, parents also need to have reasonable demands. A child asking for help during lunch and being told no is not okay. On the other hand, a parent demanding that THEY have full access to all notes so that they can “help” their child succeed- not reasonable. Let’s look for the positives of the new grading system and not look for things to complain about (not getting into colleges, lower scholarships), before they materialize. |
My kid's English teacher has the students handwriting essays more frequently because their plagiarism detecting tools aren't working well enough on the kids' AI generated essays. They say it's night and day between the type of essays they produce under pressure with no Internet tools to help them. That's not a bad thing to see what kids are capable of. |
DP here. I’m genuinely curious. How do you think the teacher above is going to meet with 150 students individually? Let’s say she meets with 2 students before school each day, 2 at her lunch, and 3 after school. That’s 7 a day she can meet with if she gives up any and all available time she has. (And that’s assuming that time wasn’t already taken up by other requirements.) She can meet with 35 students a week. It’ll take her 5 weeks to meet with all 150 and that’s by giving up ALL the time she has. Did you think this through, PP? |
This isn't a job but most jobs you know your role. Teachers are all over the place with assignments. Mine check multiple times a day as do we. A professional would have a clear outline of their class. |
None of our teachers meet before or after school. |