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Ex said,
Are you bringing any men to your house? As h** father, I have a legal right to know. True or false I'm in VA and P/C parent I think BS and BTW I don't have any men over and their is nothing in our agreement regarding that. |
| What is a P/C parent? |
| partial custody? |
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Simply ask the ex to point out where in the agreement it says this. Why are you even asking here? None of us have your agreement.
Ex: You can't any men in the house. As Larla's father I have the right to know. You: If you wouldn't mind highlighting the portion of the custody agreement that says that, I'd be happy to look it over and discuss with my lawyer. Have a super day. |
No, no he doesn't have a legal right to know. |
+1. The law is pretty simple here. |
| I don't think he has a legal right to know, but I do thnk it is common courtesy you tell him that you are dating someone if you are bringing that person around his (and yours too, obviously) kids. Thnk if the shoe were on the other foot. |
| He wants to know for his own personal reasons. Has nothing to do with custody or legal reasons. Dont tell him that you are NOT seeing men. Let him think you are (w/o saying u are ofc)...it's none of his business! Let him wonder lol |
| courtesy does not equate to legality. and courtesy is out the window if basic civility doesn't exist between the two ex-spouses. |
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Whether he has a legal right to know would depend on your divorce/ custody agreement and what it states there if anything about the sub ject
I would just say yes or no |
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There is nothing in our agreement about this. He finally responded w/ o me answering his message saying he knows about "Michael" this guy I saw a few months ago. My kid met him in a public setting kid friendly event. I'm not sure why she would be talking about him months later when no one in my house talks about this person. I feel my ex digs the issue w/ the preschooler. And me not sharing "Michael's" name and employment is"deceitful and unwarranted". I find it humorous and sad because he projects issues of his 1stwife on me. Thankfully I'm above all of it. He never says things to my face that he says in his emails.
BTW-He is remarried (2ndmarriage) so there is no shoe on other foot. |