His ex is ruining our summer vacation already!

[Anonymous]

My bf just called. He misread his ex-wife's calendar. He thought she said their son had lax camp starting one week, but got it wrong. So he gave me a week at a beach house as a Mother's Day present. Except it turns out it's the same week. He texted her to let her know DSS will miss a week of lax camp. She said No!
WTF are we supposed to do now? Go without him?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like your boyfriend messed up by mis-reading the calendar. That's not exactly the ex's fault--nor is it her fault if the lax camp can't get re-scheduled. Place your blame appropriately, and let your boyfriend figure out a solution for HIS mistake.

[Anonymous]

Yeah this is all your boyfriends fault and no place should be placed on the ex wife at all.

[Anonymous]

- She didn't ruin summer, sounds like your bf did. You said "He thougt - got it wrong" you didnt mention that she gave wrong information. Why should she agree for camp to be missed. (sorry don't know what lax camp is)

Any chance you can get your date moved?

[Anonymous]

Why can't she be flexible? She's just jealous. And spiteful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why can't she be flexible? She's just jealous. And spiteful.

Please tell me this is a joke. Wtf is wrong with some people? Yes,punish the kid because his dad isn't capable of reading a calendar.

[Anonymous]

Your bf is kind of loser of a dad if his first solution to fixing his own mistake is to deprive his son of a week at camp.

[Anonymous]

OP- Get ready for some serious stress if you believe that the ex is in the wrong in this scenario. Sounds like you are looking for her to do something against you even when she doesn't.

- Poor Ex

[Anonymous]

We get so little time to be a family with DSS. What is one week of camp?

[Anonymous]

He's not a loser. Don't be hasty to judge someone you don't know. She's just mad that she had to go back to work and I am a SAHM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We get so little time to be a family with DSS. What is one week of camp?

DSS as in Dear Step-son? Sorry, not your step-child, you are just a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We get so little time to be a family with DSS. What is one week of camp?

Hate to mention this but he is not your DSS.

For what it is worth one week of camp could be crucial - Relationships have established. A whole week of intense information missed and not to mention the cost if not refundable.

[Anonymous]

You are not a family with this child. And it's not fair to this child to expect him to miss camp. It's not jealousy or spitefulness that makes his wife not want to tell the child he needs to miss camp. A child is not an object to be manipulated so you can play Happy Family. You suck, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get so little time to be a family with DSS. What is one week of camp?

Hate to mention this but he is not your DSS.

For what it is worth one week of camp could be crucial - Relationships have established. A whole week of intense information missed and not to mention the cost if not refundable.

But, but, but... she's getting Mother's Day's gifts... so it must count.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's not a loser. Don't be hasty to judge someone you don't know. She's just mad that she had to go back to work and I am a SAHM.

Are you just trying to stir shit up? Surely you can't be this stupid. She doesn't give a shit about you, darling. She is just doing what's best for HER CHILD. BTW if you have his child, why didn't he marry you?