Really freaked out after reading an "Incel" blog

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:tib, have you ever been in love with anyone?

Do you love your family members?

Yes, I have been in love with TFO and my first girlfriend.

I do love them in a way but am also aware they destroyed my life by not treating my LS.

tib

What have you done for your family members? Do you give love to them? Or do you only expect from them, and blame then when you don't get what you expect? Love is not about receiving - it's about giving - what do you give to people you love?

tib -

You have clearly purposely avoided answering this question. My guess is that you have never actually loved anyone except yourself. That's very sad. I know no one likes to have other people on the internet diagnose them, but I highly doubt this is the first time anyone's suggested that you have narcissistic personality disorder. Whether it's your family, girls, or random people commenting, you seem obsessed with blaming others for not fulling expectations for how they should treat you or what they should give to you. You obsesses about others not being empathetic towards you.

But you won't answer about what you give to those you live. What you selflessly provide them, without return. Everything is about you and what you want or need. This is not normal. You need severe psychological help. And don't take that as an "insult" - it's for your own benefit to work to correct that, and become a loving person (a person who gives, and isn't concerned with always being wronged or think the entire world is structured against you)

[Anonymous]

You could solve all of your problems so easily if you just realized you are not so different from everyone around you. Why don't you take a social skills class, a dancing class and join a singles club in your city? There are plenty of other shy, awkward people out there in your shoes who are looking for someone to connect with, and who ARE NOT condemning the rest of society in the process.

I bet any amount of money that if you did the things I suggested, found a girlfriend and had a stable, sexual relationship for even a few months, you would no longer see the world the way you see it today.

[Anonymous]

WTF!!! I ALMOST felt sorry for you because I mis-read your post! You think your parents SHOULD have paid for a prostitute for you! You are one sick mother f'er! If you wanted it that bad why didn't you get a part time job and hire your own hooker? I hope you are in Croatia. And I hope you never come to the United States. I also hope you are now sleeping and I hope you wake up tomorrow (and I really hope this was all a prank to screw with all of the people here on DCUM) but if not, I hope you find a clinic with a great psychiatrist or check yourself in somewhere. This is really quite something. As an arm chair psychiatrist I will also give you another diagnosis - Narcissistic Personality Disorder + Depression + Schizophrenia and I think you are a Sociopath. Have you ever hurt animals? You are a ticking time bomb. Get yourself some HELP.

WHY ARE YOU ON THIS FORUM????? IF YOU LIVE IN CROATIA?????

MADNESS!

[Anonymous]

This guy is an irretrievable nutbag but everyone needs to stop asking him why he's on this forum. He came here because a poster posted a link to his blog here.

[Anonymous]

I think there is a secret part of many men who feel similar to tib. Look at how misogyny is codified in patriarchal religions. Now people disguise the impulse to control women with more PC language. But the same impulse underlies it.

This is why it's so critically important for women to reject efforts to curb reproductive freedoms. Depriving women of full autonomy and ownership of their own bodies is an attempt to turn back the clock to a time when women were as dependent in males as these sickos would like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This guy is an irretrievable nutbag but everyone needs to stop asking him why he's on this forum. He came here because a poster posted a link to his blog here.

And I apologize for that. I didn't know that if you posted a link to a blog that the blogger could see it and that this particular blogger would even care --surely he'd prefer a more sympathetic audience?

He's scary and sad. I've talked to some of my friends about holding some workshops to educate parents about the dangers of this type of group think. Geez, I never thought as a parent I'd have to worry about the quiet, awkward guys.

[Anonymous]

I am fschmidt and tib linked to some of my posts. I usually don't post to forums like this, but I would like address those freaking out about the "incel" blog and the recent killings by Elliot Rodger. What I would like you to understand is that you are absolutely incapable of understanding us, so you shouldn't even try. What you should do is to try to prevent violence in the future by directing anyone who you know who has similar views to my website which is here:

http://www.coalpha.org/

While I despise your culture, I am against violence. So if I had had contact with Elliot Rodger, the violence would have been prevented. I fully understand him and I would have explained to him the pointlessness of violence and I would have suggested better alternatives. No one in your culture, modern culture, would be capable of communicating with him in a meaningful way. So please don't freak out and, instead, direct those who cannot tolerate your culture to my website where I will direct them to non-violent ways of escaping from modern culture.

fschmidt

[Anonymous]

And here I thought only Americans were spooled entitled psychopaths….but now we have "tib" who is debunking the myth!

Tib has earned a unique distinction here on DCUM as THE CRAZIEST poster of ALL TIME. I mean that is hard to do, but hands down, he blows all the other lunatics here clear out of the water. Chipotle Lady does not even stand a chance. It's going to be hard for someone to top him. Also he has united the ever factioned DCUM. This is the first time I have seen posters in unanimous agreement.

[Anonymous]

And where is this post coming from - Croatia as well?

[jsteele]

It turns out tib is pretty well known on the Internet and has been completely doxxed before. It took me about 5 minutes to learn his life history and find photos of him.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:It turns out tib is pretty well known on the Internet and has been completely doxxed before. It took me about 5 minutes to learn his life history and find photos of him.

"doxxed"?

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:It turns out tib is pretty well known on the Internet and has been completely doxxed before. It took me about 5 minutes to learn his life history and find photos of him.

I'm so jealous! I wish I could figure that out too. What is Doxxed?

From your research, do you think he is as dangerous as he sounds?

[Anonymous]

Ah, one does not have to dig too deep…some stuff I found quickly on subreddit. Could probably waste my whole night away digging.

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:It turns out tib is pretty well known on the Internet and has been completely doxxed before. It took me about 5 minutes to learn his life history and find photos of him.

I'm so jealous! I wish I could figure that out too. What is Doxxed?

From your research, do you think he is as dangerous as he sounds?

"Doxxed" = all his personal data (documents, docs, dox) being posted. He is potentially dangerous, but only to the people of Zagreb.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:It turns out tib is pretty well known on the Internet and has been completely doxxed before. It took me about 5 minutes to learn his life history and find photos of him.

I'm so jealous! I wish I could figure that out too. What is Doxxed?

From your research, do you think he is as dangerous as he sounds?

"Doxxed" = all his personal data (documents, docs, dox) being posted. He is potentially dangerous, but only to the people of Zagreb.

Can you post some links?