Clearly it was changed since your experience.. jeez keep up. |
People serious about eating right and working out aren't talking about being "skinny" in my experience. If they use the word skinny its negative because nobody wants skinny legs and arms if you're lifting or doing strength training. Being called a "skinny B" is obviously not a compliment. I just associate being skinny as a goal with the boomers, the people who were all into the 70/80s workout crazes who wanted to be skinny at all costs rather than healthy. The goal now is more healthy, fit, and toned with younger people. |
BMI has its issues, but as a measure of health, it is definitely superior to the "Looks fat to me" DCUM measure |
Skinny is a description. Yes, it is a huge problem that you equate skinny with good and take not skinny as an insult. Have you tried to address that in therapy? |
Meh, I think there is. Fat kids in the 70s and 80s got teased relentlessly. I was one of those kids. It made me want to work to get skinny. The teasing was motivation. My niece is fat and there's nothing to motivate her to lose weight. If a doctor even brings it up, she and her friends will put that doctor on blast on social media. People are now selling "don't weigh me unless medically necessary" cards to hand out to doctors. She shakes her ass on TikTok with all kinds of hashtags about her beauty and body positivity. Sorry, no, there's nothing positive about being 350lbs except the fact that you're probably not going to get kidnaped or sex trafficked. She has terrible knee issues, gets winded walking through a grocery store, doesn't fit in most restaurant booths, and is diabetic... none of those are positives. There needs to be some degree of bullying to toughen people up and act as motivation to change. |
LOL have you been on Instagram and tiktok? The ones with all the likes and views are definetely skinny, the above would be considered Coachella heavy |
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https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/06/yes-there-were-fat-people-in-the-olden-days-too/258050/
Yes, There Were Fat People in the Olden Days Too I think the difference is that there are more younger heavier people today. My whole family, according to pictures, starting being overweight in their 30s from 1900 on. Unless they smoked. |
Exhibit 1 why obesogenic industries are laughing their way to the bank. With people like PP around, they don't even need to pay their lobbyists. PP does their dirty work for them. |
What is an obesogenic industry? |
Industries contribute significantly to obesity. Essentially, the industries that are to obesity what Big Tobacco is to cancer and smoking-related deaths. |
Which industries specifically? |
I think they mean companies that make “junk” food and/or processed foods. Comparing food to drugs is ridiculous though. But whatever. Everyone is fat and no wants to take ownership of their own poor eating and lifestyle habits. It is the food industry’s fault, it is the school’s fault, it is your changing micro biome from plastics…I got it. |
| I agree there was a lot of processed food in the 70s/80s- the lunch I took to school was typically along the lines of bologna/kraft single on white bread, applesauce, little debbie cake. So many sugary drinks too. But I think activity levels were higher in general- more phys ed, more recess, more free time playing outside and bike rides. The only "screen time" was TV. Not that we didn't ask for more than my parents allowed, but all the devices now results in cumulatively higher screentime amounts. |
We have become so sensitive as a society that there's this tremendous pressure not to be judgmental but that's resulted in a failure to provide good structures and expectations for people. The growth in fat acceptance is a perfect example. And I can also think of a bunch of other examples that will remain nameless at the moment. There's nothing wrong with a bit of judging and shaming. People do learn from it. And it's usually for the best. IT can be overdone, agreed, but we have a problem if we can't tell overweight kids it's not good to be fat and instead are telling them fat is beautiful when it only means a lifetime of health problems. A perfect example of how judging and shaming has good outcomes is smoking. The peer pressure not to smore and the growth in perception that smoking was a shameful habit did encourage many people to quit as well as stop others from taking up smoking in the first place. We need to do the same with obesity. Frankly, given that there is a very high correlation between obesity and hospitalization with COVID, this should be a perfect opportunity to have a national dialogue about weight and obesity. |
You might want to learn a bit more, PP: https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwil-fPi5uP1AhUauMgKHc65CgQYABAEGgJxdQ&ae=2&sig=AOD64_3GiFfy_OSaKmWUddP0p2Ye8zsxQw&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwi2i9_i5uP1AhXhl3IEHdijBqIQ9aACegQIAhBC&adurl= |