Yes, this is a sane response to someone asking a question regarding whether their kids' team is typical. You are not too invested at all ... |
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Ive never seen the striker the best player on any higher youth level team . You must be not understanding the whole game. |
Right, I am assuming that on a high level team there should be no major issues with any of the players, so that is clearly not the question. |
+100 You can see the level of soccer knowledge is lacking with this crew, when you keep seeing 'big and physical' as the primary means for what determines good. I see parents clueless about what a god-awful first touch so many players have. They can't bring the ball out of the air on a dime, they can't trap, the ball ricochets off their foot or body since they have zero familiarity with it. These are the things good coaches and knowledgeable notice first and foremost in a player: first touch. But, a player needs to have comfort on the ball, the touch between the first and second leading into the pass needs to be quick. Know when to pass the ball harder or softer, accuracy. Open up the body while the ball is coming to you, so you are ready to put it where you want. |
Big pet peeve of mine. |
No one ever says anything negative about teammates during our games, and I have three kids. Opponents is a different story. |
Same with our sidelines, but some of my kids have been on some teams where that stuff is awful. |
This is exactly my experience. A good team will have a goal-hungry striker with a knack for scoring; technical ability to shred defenders in a 1v1; good positional sense and soccer IQ to understand where he needs to be off the ball; and confidence on the ball under pressure. A defender who is fast and can break up an opponent’s play and boot the ball forward into an area where his teammates are may not be ideal, but is good enough especially at younger ages. And I say this as a parent of both type of players. One of my boys is big and fast and aggressive, he likes breaking up plays but will be the first to admit that his technical skills are below his peers on the team, and that he does not have a good shot. He still plays at a competitive level. My other son has amazing technical skills, is small for his age, and has been the top scorer on his team for the past 3 years. He has the confidence on ball to score under pressure. He is average at defense, but can be pushed around a bit and is not a very physical player. |
Slow kids are not selected on competitive high level teams period. |
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Weaker players become stronger players, stronger players become weaker players. Tiny kids become big, biggest kid stops growing in 8th grade.
Just wait. If you are talking about U17, okay. But, if kids haven't even finished middle school and a good portion of the boys on your team haven't hit puberty yet: you are in for a shock. Oh boy, do circumstances change. |
Of course. But puberty doesn't just magically give kids technical ability and ball control. They need to be developing those skills at any size, any age. Any relative evaluation of players (weaker v. stronger, bigger v. smaller, faster v. slower) is necessarily going to be merely a snapshot in time. But at any moment in time, trying to "hide" your weakest player in the striker position seems like something that is only done on teams trying to minimize the damage, not on teams playing to win. |
I'm sure that they do, but physical size is not the point - at all. If you are a U13 and can't figure out how NOT to perpetually be offside, there is a larger issue. |
says the parent of a lower level kid |
Also, read the posts before chiming in. It was explained that physical size was not the way in which "weaker" was meant. |