| We are building a pool at our new house. We will not be putting a fence up. Youngest is 12 and a strong swimmer. Oldest is a competitive swimmer and lifeguard. Yard is walled/fenced from neighbors but we're not putting a fence around the actual pool. |
+1 Also a former lifeguard and pool manager. |
+1000 You have neighbors and other people around you. Never. |
Or if it were the alarmed kind that alerted his parents someone was in the pool. OP, your kid is eight now. But in a few years, you will need to worry about the boneheaded things teens do in a group. Leave the fence or, better yet, upgrade it. |
| We have the same set up as you described. We’re keeping the safety fence up. Apparently someone climbed the outside fence and drowned in the pool before we lived in the house and when there was only the outside fence. We want to keep that extra layer of protection. |
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Never. You never know when a neighborhood kid might make a fatal decision, and you never know when such kids might arrive in your neighborhood... |
Yikes. I wouldn't have bought the house. |
You are the reason there need to be laws in place in every state for this. Imagine you're having a big party. Parents come with kids of various ages, everyone is chatting, no one has their eyes peeled on their kid every second, and lines of sight are blocked by the number of people. It takes a couple of minutes for a toddler to fall in and drown. |
| Re drowning in the pool - we found out after moving in from a random neighbor who didn’t know we lived there. Neighbors who knew never told us. |
Not PP, but their yard is walled/fenced. They shouldn't have to live their life around a hypothetical toddler party scenario. Pools CAN be dangerous but a law requiring double fencing is rather extreme. |
PP. Our pool is in compliance with local laws-fully walled/fenced off and locked from to the outside. Not in the DC area. This set up is VERY common where we are. The only people with double fences have very young kids. Sorry, not sorry, but I'm not putting up another fence in the off chance a toddler comes over. Odds of that are slim to none as my kids are older. |
We have several friends like this; big yard that is fenced, but no fence around the actual pool and pool is accessed from finished lower level/basement with sliding doors or maybe the main level. I am always on edge with my 4 yr old at houses like this at parties. |