| I worked, and found a company that helped pay for most of it. Lots of companies have tuition reimbursement programs. |
For someone planning to go into Big Law, taking 5 years vs 3 years to graduate really doesn't make financial sense from a opportunity cost perspective. If planning in public interest, this might be a good calculation. |
That's interesting. What if you want to be in a position to buy your own practice or buy into an existing practice? My neighbor has the most amazing lifestyle as a dentist. He had no school debt and could buy his own dental practice from an established retiring dentist 2 years out of school. If he did nor have this freedom, he would have been stuck working for someone else and lining their pockets while drawing a salary. For women, it also gives them flexibility to plan their family. They can take a lighter load (and smaller salary) during prime pregnancy years. If you can't save for grad school, that's totally fine and there are lots of good reasons for a student to have “skin in the game”. For us, looking at everything on balance, we have decided to save so that undergrad and grad is totally covered. |
OP here: good point. Both friends work in public interest fields. My two friends in Big Law (NYC) took out loans to go to Yale and Stanford. They are doing well considering their starting salaries 15 years ago. |
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My DS graduated from med school and had no loans in undergrad. He has loans from tuition, but I handled all living expenses, saving him about $80-100K. He is a resident now and loan amount is based off his income. He has consistently paid 4X the amount due and has paid all thru the pandemic ( Joe Biden suspended all interest). His plan is to live like a resident until the loan is paid in full. He will get there.
I would love to pay off his loans, but as a parent, you then must consider the other siblings who haven’t opted for a pricey graduate degree. Parenting never ends. |
Totally depends what field you are entering. Some pay (like a basic science PhD). Some do not (like law school or a Masters in Public Health). You still may need the degree for your career path,but it will be difficult to find a school that funds most students. Perhaps you could find an employer who would. |
Agree. Whenever I make this point with doctors and lawyers, they get their knickers in a knot, get angry and start yelling. - If the cost of a program is more than 5 X expected annual salary, it's not worth it. Doesn't matter who's paying for it. - If you can't apply 50% of your salary towards loan payment, you are a fool. |
| Can't speak to law school or med school - but if getting a Phd, go to the school that will give you a full tuition stipend and will offer teaching assistant or research assistant jobs. I didn't pay a penny to the school for my Ph.D. |
This. |
If you can afford 4 years of a SLAC or OOS and Med School for multiple kids, you're almost certainly rich. Between the two, you're looking at a half million per child, most people can't put that much money aside in addition to saving for retirement |
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Discourage your kids from going to law school. Most lawyers do not make enough money to merit the cost, especially at a lower ranked school. And the type of work that does offer a high enough salary to justify the cost of law school is really not for most people. This is a major reason so many lawyers are unhappy. If they are making decent money, they are often very unhappy in their jobs. If they are happy in their jobs, they are probably struggling under the weight of their debt.
Law school is a bad deal and we should probably totally overhaul legal education in this system. It should be a one year masters program with a required apprenticeship after which you take the bar to fully qualify. This is much closer to what they do in the UK and other countries and it makes more sense. Our current system treats all law students like future corporate attorneys even though only a very small number actually go this route, and even among those that do, the number that will stay in corporate law long enough to justify 100k+ in loans is even smaller. Also, if your kid is interested in medicine, I highly recommend investigating whether they could be happy as a nurse practitioner or similar. The training is shorter and less expensive, and you can still make very good money while helping people. I think people should only become doctors if they have a very strong motivation to practice in a specific specialty or to specific things that only a doctor can do (like if you want to be a surgeon or go into certain kinds of medical research). The training is incredibly long and if your ultimate goal is simply to have a medical career, there are lots of other options. |
I'm not sure the PP actually has a plan. What is with “somehow”? Are they actually saving for this or do they have an asset (2nd home, etc) that they will sell? |
Agree on law school. On medicine, agree if you are talking about primary care. The lifetime earnings for a primary care physician are not all that different from the lifetime earnings of a primary care NP/PA once you take into account schooling and insurance costs. However, for specialities, the gap in earnings between the MD and NP/PA is astronomical. A urologist in DC can earn well over $500K per year and they reach that quickly. The urology NP's top out at about $100K, sometimes a bit more if they take over the lead for the administration. Over the course of a career, medical school is clearly worth it for many specialists. |
Yes, definitely true for my humanities field. (And people usually get the M.A. on the way to the Ph.D., rather than seeking an M.A. as a terminal degree.) |
I had a full ride. DH had GI Bill. My mom took out loans. My brother’s employer paid. Only my XH’s parents paid for his. Oldest DD is going to do law school part time with loans and we’ll pay her phone and car insurance. |