I have one too (well, just turned 6 but in K), and am having a similar experience. Fall was ok but January has been a downhill slide. We've been trying to make him attend every class and do every assignment, but can't sit next to him and redirect and threaten consequences all day, which is what he needs at this point. We are running out of reward ideas, it's the month after Christmas and it's a pandemic so we cant go a lot of places or see a lot of people. I have no ideas for you, OP, but we are very much not hearing things like "just skip assignments" or "leave after morning meeting" as being acceptable from our school. We skipped ONE math app activity because the app was down the week it was assigned and we were too busy fighting over the next week's work to do makeup, and he apparently completely ignored his art teacher's instructions yesterday to draw Transformers instead, which I'm not even sure is worth forcing. So much of this feels like it's more about compliance than learning. Our district is planning to start hybrid Feb 16, and we're debating whether to keep him signed up because even 2 days a week in person would probably help, vs move him to DL because we are nowhere near the metrics from Aug-Oct and the teacher's association came out against it. It sucks so much that this falls on parents to try to be ethical for their own kids and the community at once when the school system is making such arbitrary seeming decisions. |
This sums it up so well. DL isn’t working for this age group at all, but this seems like the worst possible time to reopen. I’m so frustrated that they could not find a way to do *some* in person school in the fall, when cases were low, which I think would make it easier to keep the kids home now. Plus they could have figured out some things about logistics. I’ve been advocating for some form of outdoor school (with masks) since last summer, but there is no will to make this happen. It doesn’t help of course that Trump and Congress refused to allocate funds to schools to help make it happen. It’s an awful situation. I was reading an argument from a teachers advocate yesterday saying it’s not fair to heap all the risk of this situation on teachers, and I agree with that. But they were also saying that instead of in person school , we should be looking for ways to improve DL, to provide mental health services to families, even money to parents who are supervising DL to compensate due list wages and time. The problem is that NONE of that is happening. So while I think it’s unfair to shift the burden onto teachers who feel it is not safe, it is also unfair that families have carried the burden on their own this entire time. I still can’t believe what working parents have been asked to perform over the last year. I feel broken. I’m not trying to put teachers in danger. But I need help, and it’s not coming. |
It really doesn't matter, as long as your kid is getting used to trying to read. EVERYONE is going to be behind in some way. The kid reading on a 2nd grade level will have atrocious social skills. The kid who has great social skills will barely be able to read. Everyone will need to catch up in some way.
Just let it go. This is a pandemic. If you come out of it alive and sane, you won. |
Homeschool. I have a K child thriving. If you work, you can still find 60-90 minutes in your day to do it. K is quite easy (I have several kids on four different grade levels and k is the easiest and quickest). Young children deserve better than this. |
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I’m glad for you. It’s something I would do, but we don’t have a parental consensus. Private is not an option either. (We aren’t $$$). |
If the spouse isn't helping with virtual learing, then they don't have a say in it. |
I appreciate his point of view. He’s a good parent and kind partner. We’ll continue to try to find middle ground. I am thankful for everyone’s response. It helps me evaluate what’s going on and where we can leave room for tough days. |
Sitting at a computer and staring at a screen is not school. It’s bullshit and totally developmentally inappropriate for young children. Log in for 5 minutes and then go about your day. |
Our private school has been open all year. Not a single case reported. The issue is most certainly the teachers and the union. |
Why are they doing this? It is because people like the OP don't take it seriously. If he can't sit still for very long, fine. But he should be doing some of the work. You can do it evenings and weekends. That's when my kids do most of their work so I can supervise. Their teachers are happy to accept the work any time. |
With no weekly testing, easy to say that and pretend. |
Online school s beyond stupid, when done like this, forcing kids to sit at the laptop for hours. I would quite it too. Now, Laurel Springs of something similar is way better. |
Is your daughter in my kid's K class? She was super engaged in the fall but recently has been 100% over it... and even as a parent half listening while doing my own work I can tell the difference.
I agree with the posters who say to log in and then let it go. It's really not worth the fight to try to make her pay attention when the instruction is crawling along between tech issues and she already knows all the things being covered. |
It's kindergarten. It's not that serious. Also, my son has had various assignments that I know he did disappear when he tries to submit on Seesaw. If you want to see an otherwise enthusiastic 6 year old go into meltdown, having his assignment disappear after spending 10 minutes getting it just right is a good way to do it. |