| Needy- would love an after text or evening after work |
Agreed HUGE turn off |
Dating is hard enough...you sound like an awful person. |
+1 How is it creepy? Any why did it warrant ghosting? Maybe not just hey I don't like good morning texts! |
That may have provided PP with the excuse to ghost, but it's a lock that if he had the other qualities she seeks (more attractive, better job, etc) she would have found it sweet. This kinds of trivial dealbreakers come up here all the the time and they are always endearing if you desire the person and cringe if you don't. |
As a woman, do you feel the obligation to reply to them? |
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Not a woman, but in all of all my relationships since being single, I have only had one that included regular good morning texts. Usually it was some joke or link to something else. It was always relaxed and never something I really thought about or worried over if one of us missed responding.
Usually a couple that knows each other can get on the same page for what works communication wise. |
If you randomly got one, would you find it strange? |
NP, by random, you just mean out of the blue? I mean, you are seeing the person, right? What is so creepy about saying good morning to the person you are seeing? I mean, I say it to friends at work all the time! |
| It’s not needy to an emotionally mature person. It doesn’t warrant a response either. And it shouldn’t be a daily requirement. Do what you love and love what you do. |
Send it and don't expect any reply |
It's likely a needy red flag |
Who do you hang out - freaks? This is what people in love do. Never been with a guy who wouldn't do this. |
Agreed. |
Ignore always |