I agree you shouldn't force your kid to go to TJ but I don't think we entirely agree. My kid was 13 when he took the test. He didn't want to take the test. I bugged him. He was 14 when he got in, he didn't want to go. I cajoled him to give it a try. I showed him stats about how many kids returned to base school to convince him that returning to base school was a real option. He wasn't 100% committed. he wasn't 50% committed. He had one foot out the door when he walked in. He fking loves it there. Your 13/14 year old does not always know what's good for them. |