They still need engagement with their teachers. As a kid who was always in gifted programs, I can personally attest to this. |
He always stayed ahead. He had always scored in the top two percent in any verbal type of testing. I feel like they just took advantage of this knowing that he was bright. He still deserves instruction though. But his district got rid of GT classes so that’s what he got. I put him in private school and he finally had to work. There was none of this “well, he meets the standard so...” |
Reading groups are one tiny portion of the kid's day. As a teacher, and someone who would have qualified for the gifted program had we not moved around constantly, I can tell you that the kids at the top get more engagement than the other kids at every other piece of the school day. Reading groups by third grade are a small portion of the day, which ensures that those kids who can't engage in the whole group lessons, because they're below the level of the text, or don't have the verbal skills to keep up, get some attention. |
My son’s teacher told me she only met with her high group once a week for about 20 minutes. The other two groups met with her every day. |
Tiny? My kid had reading groups for an hour a day every day throughout ES. So for 20 minutes out of five hours in a week, he was taught by his teacher in his group. Hardly tiny. |
So, 5/6 of the day he was getting attention? |
Get used to it. Public schools, regardless of where they’re located, have become awful. I’m truly sorry to say that because I’ve always believed in public schools, but some thing has shifted. I find it supremely unfair that children who can’t afford private get a subpar education. |
I completely agree. DH and I visited a couple of private schools in MoCo (not the fancy ones, but well-regarded nonetheless) and looked at each other and said "this is basically what public school was for us." We both went to public school in the Northeast in the 90s. It's sad we need to pay $20-25K/year to access that. |
|
"Yep. My DS never received reading instruction on his level in ES. He was grouped with the above level kids starting in K. They only instructed them one grade level above even though my son was 3+ years above grade level. He actually increased his own reading level mostly by doing independent reading for the vast majority of time. By 5th grade, his teacher only met with his group once a week.
So, did the rest of the kids catch up, or did he stay 3+ levels above? If the latter, then obviously the teachers knew what they were doing, and met his needs. Above level readers benefit from large amounts of independent reading. It's what they need. A good teacher respects that." I'll throw in what my DC learned back in ES. At the beginning of each year, there would be some testing for most kids to assign a reading group. DC's testing never occurred like the others, although sometimes other kids weren't tested either, the classroom wasn't set up to test that far ahead. Because of what DC was reading the year before, the teacher would ask DC to read from a MS/HS level book. After maybe 60 seconds, DC would be sent back to their seat with the words, you will be your own group. DC said she never met with the teacher like the kids that had a group but the teacher would have less than 60 second conversations with her about reading. Sometimes these would be at recess, sometimes they would be on the walk to lunch. Sometimes they would just be book recommendations but often DC felt they were interesting questions she was supposed to think about and answer next time. Once DC got the message, she would approach the teacher with an answer or her own question pretty much every day. This wasn't just one teacher one year that did this. DC is in college now and has never given up this questioning the teacher process. Some teachers hate it because they don't have answers. Others have written end of the year notes praising DD's interest and how it made their day each time she approached them. Learning happens at all times and in all sorts of ways. |
| Almost forgot. DD was in a standard MCPS school from K-3 where this started. |
IMO learning should happen deliberately, not as the teacher walks the class to lunch. The bright kids are being ignored and told to go read a book. Yeah, he can do that at home. Teach him at (or close to his level). The fact that people just accept it makes it okay but it's not okay IMO. |
WDC area private schools were not at all what we expected, coming from NYC. Here they were hardly academic in the lower schools and extremely liberal and progressive, or whatever you want to call social justice approach to teaching social studies, reading, even science. It was far from well-balanced or a total perspective of anything. The pendulum was so far left it's tipping over. We ended up at a presbyterian school after doing a "Big 3" for 2 years. |
This is what we are seeing as well. Just wondering if anyone has spoken to the teachers or “resolved” the issue in any way. It seems like for some their kids going to CES helped. But what about the kids that wouldn’t be able to get in?
|
| If you kid is smart but doesn't make the cut for gifted programs, it is rough. Prepare for years of mediocrity. |
Honestly, at some schools it’s even less than mediocrity. Our ES has a high ESOL population and even by 2nd grade, we have kids who can barely read and write words. The teacher, by necessity, has to spend more time with those kids. The class lessons have to be at a level where all kids can understand. MS is even worse, where Advanced English is made up of a range of kids from a third grade reading level to a HS reading level. |