Is it a big deal if your kids catch you in the act?

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^had

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Anonymous wrote:Yes that would be pretty big deal for me and the kids. Grow up OP. Your kids dont want to see that nastiness. eww.

Not sure what you mean by this? Are you suggesting since I have kids I should never had sex with my spouse again at home?

The only non-negative about being stuck with a functional asexual is that I never have to worry about kids walking in on us

[Anonymous]

We don’t have a lock on our kitchen

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes that would be pretty big deal for me and the kids. Grow up OP. Your kids dont want to see that nastiness. eww.

Not sure what you mean by this? Are you suggesting since I have kids I should never had sex with my spouse again at home?

Did you get dropped on your head, how is this confusing?

Why is getting walked in on so horrible? What is so wrong with your children seeing you and your spouse being affectionate? I am not saying you put on a show for them. Why so hostile towards a natural act?

You think people are saying don't have sex. No people are saying lock the door.

Kids see affection all the time. That is not a problem. Seeing parents having sex is not normal.

Yeah, kids do not need to see that. Lock the damn door like everyone else does.

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Anonymous wrote:We don’t have a lock on our kitchen

That. We don't have one in our front yard. It's a problem. I keep telling the kids not to look outside.

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Anonymous wrote:3 of our 6 have walked in on us over the last ... 25 years?

One didn't realize what he'd walked in on, one said, "Can we just agree to never speak of this again ever?" and one ran out yelling oh no and then later said well, at least we still love each other.

So although not ideal and embarrassing for all, not traumatizing.

Why didn’t you buy a lock after the first time it happened?

(Or the second for that matter...)

We don't have locks within the interior of our home.

You didn’t answer the question. Why not buy one? It’s pretty inexpensive and easy to install.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:3 of our 6 have walked in on us over the last ... 25 years?

One didn't realize what he'd walked in on, one said, "Can we just agree to never speak of this again ever?" and one ran out yelling oh no and then later said well, at least we still love each other.

So although not ideal and embarrassing for all, not traumatizing.

Why didn’t you buy a lock after the first time it happened?

(Or the second for that matter...)

We don't have locks within the interior of our home.

Oh, so you must not believe in personal privacy?? I'm sure your tweens and teenagers LOVED being walked in on while they were showering, using the toilet or getting dressed. "We don't believe in locks kids!"

That's beyond ridiculous. Your poor children.

[Anonymous]

^I'll bet your kids moved out as soon as the turned 18 and haven't been back.

[Anonymous]

There are so many sex-negative prudes on this thread, it's amazing that their children even managed to be conceived.

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Anonymous wrote:There are so many sex-negative prudes on this thread, it's amazing that their children even managed to be conceived.

Oh, come on. Have some basic decency. The idea that a kid could walk in on you at any second is like a bucket of cold water to most people. Nothing sexy about that AT ALL. Lock your door!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:3 of our 6 have walked in on us over the last ... 25 years?

One didn't realize what he'd walked in on, one said, "Can we just agree to never speak of this again ever?" and one ran out yelling oh no and then later said well, at least we still love each other.

So although not ideal and embarrassing for all, not traumatizing.

Why didn’t you buy a lock after the first time it happened?

(Or the second for that matter...)

We don't have locks within the interior of our home.

You didn’t answer the question. Why not buy one? It’s pretty inexpensive and easy to install.

Yes-we live in a rental with a landlord who does not allow us to put holes in the woodwork (to install a conventional lock), so we have one that replaces the plate that holds back the button on the regular door latch and then flips up and forward to a locked position if we want to lock the door.

We have been walked in on by a 10-year old and we had to explain (later, clothed!) what was happening. It was uncomfortable, but would have been more confusing for the child if we had said nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3 of our 6 have walked in on us over the last ... 25 years?

One didn't realize what he'd walked in on, one said, "Can we just agree to never speak of this again ever?" and one ran out yelling oh no and then later said well, at least we still love each other.

So although not ideal and embarrassing for all, not traumatizing.

I love you and your family. F the lock, you are doing OK!

[Anonymous]

Kids are too scared to go downstairs at night.
Living room is the Love Room

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes that would be pretty big deal for me and the kids. Grow up OP. Your kids dont want to see that nastiness. eww.

Not sure what you mean by this? Are you suggesting since I have kids I should never had sex with my spouse again at home?

The only non-negative about being stuck with a functional asexual is that I never have to worry about kids walking in on us

Yep.

[Anonymous]

It happened once when we forgot to lock the door. She was only 3 or 4 and I don’t think it traumatized her. We got a good laugh out of it but it did kill the moment! We are now empty nesters and it’s nice to not have to even close the door or worry that the walls have ears.