| Op, again, thanks for the positive suggestions— we will definitely restart some private training, and he will look for opportunities to work on offensive skills at practice. Ds was good at advocating for himself last year, and I think he will get more comfortable with this coach as the year goes on. |
| this happened to my son at about the same age, and his growth spurt came earlier. initially he wasn't thrilled about it. then one coach explained to him and to us that it's really important to be able to build your skill set and that playing defense gives you an entirely different perspective on building the attack. he was right. my son became a strong defender and kept developing his midfielder skill set. last year he got to play at center defensive midfield, a position he adores. now that he's just made varsity, he's back to defense, though in a central role because the older, stronger players have the midfield covered. >>all in all, accept the role in defense because it will help your son develop flexibility and versatility. as he gets older, he will play more and develop more if he can excel at multiple positions on the field. |
I’m a new poster. Thanks for this. My son is a forward (striker and right midfield) and now wants to play defense so he can play any position when he gets older. At first I was uncertain but I feel that this is actually a good move on his part! |
I would trust the coach to make the right decision. Putting him at Center Back means the coach has confidence in his skills and physical play. The back line is the last line of defense outside of goalie, who will be a huge disadvantage one on one. No one has to play a position the same way. Marcelo plays Left Back very differently than Luke Shaw for example. It is a great skill be able to know when to attack and when to perform your core defensive duties as a defender. If your team is dominating the other team, he should not be just standing back with the goalie picking flowers. He should a part of the attack force. Your school may have plenty of defenders but do they have plenty of good defenders or defenders who bring his unique style of play? |