Anyone freeze eggs after having multiple healthy children?

[Anonymous]

^^not sure why the word kids is in there. Phones!

[Anonymous]

Not sure why adoption is not on the table at this point either.

[Anonymous]

Op, your wish is enough of an outliner that pushing for this, is really, nothing short of selfish. A No is always a No.

[Anonymous]

My family and I attended a funeral for a 75 year old recently and a few of his colleagues commented "he was so young." 75 is not young. Surprising, a relative from the greatest generation was also at the funeral (she had to be near 100) and she said If you live to be 75 you can say you had a good run.

The same thing applies to motherhood. If you started having children late and were able to have 3, count yourself blessed. You have had a good run. I started motherhood in my late 20s and experienced secondary infertility. Im not yet 40 and have realized the time for a third kid has passed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think you can use a surrogate just because you're not interested in being pregnant again or because you feel tired. I think you have to have a legitimate medical reason (certified by your doctor). Being over 40 isn't a legitimate medical reason to not carry a pregnancy.

I have a friend who was super ill during her pregnancy (vomiting a ton) and wanted a surrogate for her second pregnancy. Money was not an issue. She saw 3 different doctors and none would say there was a health risk to her in carrying a second pregnancy, so none would complete whatever the paperwork is that she needed to hire a surrogate. I'm sure she could have found SOMEONE who would have filled out the paperwork, but it was a wake up call for her.

Gestational carriers can afford to be picky. You have to tell them your story, appeal to them etc. You will be going up against women with no children because they can't give birth. OP it's insulting that you think you deserve to use a GC when you have three perfectly healthy children, just because you're "too tired" to be pregnant. The entitlement my God!

[Anonymous]

I call troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I call troll.

LOL I don't think she is a troll. I think she is just very, very bored.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think you can use a surrogate just because you're not interested in being pregnant again or because you feel tired. I think you have to have a legitimate medical reason (certified by your doctor). Being over 40 isn't a legitimate medical reason to not carry a pregnancy.

I have a friend who was super ill during her pregnancy (vomiting a ton) and wanted a surrogate for her second pregnancy. Money was not an issue. She saw 3 different doctors and none would say there was a health risk to her in carrying a second pregnancy, so none would complete whatever the paperwork is that she needed to hire a surrogate. I'm sure she could have found SOMEONE who would have filled out the paperwork, but it was a wake up call for her.

Gestational carriers can afford to be picky. You have to tell them your story, appeal to them etc. You will be going up against women with no children because they can't give birth. OP it's insulting that you think you deserve to use a GC when you have three perfectly healthy children, just because you're "too tired" to be pregnant. The entitlement my God!

This is true. I think it would leave a bad taste in my mouth to be involved with a family simply because the mom was too busy for pregnancy. I would pick just about anyone else over her.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I call troll.

LOL I don't think she is a troll. I think she is just very, very bored.

Where is OP then? She has disappeared...

[Anonymous]

No rational person would do this. You have three heathy kids and are already over 40. Move on and get a puppy, bunny, kitten, or any other cute furry mammal variety.