how many days until the kids go back to school?

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Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?
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Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?


Got it. So only people who can afford to have some one stay at home should have kids. All those people who need to have two working parents should just for go kids.

I will make sure to pass that info on to my son.
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Anonymous wrote:Working parent. I love summer. The camp my kids go to for most of the summer is great and provides lunch. I love having 10 weeks off from packing lunches! My kids are excited to try new things. We get to go to the pool a bunch. I get to take them on vacation. What’s not to love?


Oh that sounds heavenly!! Packing lunch is my least favorite chore!!!

I am a WAHM and love summer. It can be stressful with different camps every week and sometimes two kids at two different places but I have the flexibility to make my own schedule to some extent and so I take a lot of time off over the summer.
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Well, summer vacation too long because of brain drain issues, but too short for the amount of time I want with my kids.

Other countries have longer school breaks during the year and shorter summers. This is what we need to do for our children's best academic interests.



Brain drain issues.. thats a parenting issue. We supplement during the summer and enrich with sports and music. If you are concerned about your child's best academic interests put some effort into it vs. expecting the school to do it all.


We do, but it's unrealistic to expect this of all parents. My point is that other countries do it better than the US, so why do we still have this backward system?






We do because many schools in the US do not have a/c. It costs a lot of money to make that happen so until then, we continue with the way it is. Parents do very little these days in terms of education. I don't think it is unrealistic for parents to continue their child's education by something as simple as encouraging them to read. I am a teacher and maybe one out of an entire class of my students will read on our free online reading program during the summer. All of my students have internet access so this is not a barrier. Most of these students have their own tablets and phones. We send home info all year about this reading program and offer incentives if students read. Do they do it? Nope. You can lead a horse to water....


My kid doesn't need your online reading program. I take them to the library to get actual books so they don't have to spend 5 hours with terrible posture harming their eyeballs by staring at a screen.



How nice for you. The kids I teach don't go to the library.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?


Got it. So only people who can afford to have some one stay at home should have kids. All those people who need to have two working parents should just for go kids.

I will make sure to pass that info on to my son.


Oh please. Camps cost hundreds a week and DCUMer's want to live in McMansions at minimum. It is a choice in this area for the most part and you know it. Most parents don't want to parent or take care of their home anymore and that is just the way it is. Nannies, babysitters, summer camps, landscapers, housecleaners, auto detail, dry cleaners, tutors, private lessons, dog walkers, etc... Outsource it all and keep working "because you have to."
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?


Got it. So only people who can afford to have some one stay at home should have kids. All those people who need to have two working parents should just for go kids.

I will make sure to pass that info on to my son.


Oh please. Camps cost hundreds a week and DCUMer's want to live in McMansions at minimum. It is a choice in this area for the most part and you know it. Most parents don't want to parent or take care of their home anymore and that is just the way it is. Nannies, babysitters, summer camps, landscapers, housecleaners, auto detail, dry cleaners, tutors, private lessons, dog walkers, etc... Outsource it all and keep working "because you have to."


Not all of us live in McMansions and pay for massively expensive camps or out source everything. I try not to generalize about SAHM because I know there are a variety of reasons for people to stay at home. I am glad for the folks who make that choice and enjoy their decision. More power to you. How about you stop judging me? There are a good number of working parents in this thread who have said they enjoy summer vacation for a variety of reasons.

I know SAHMs that I know are sending their kids to camp because, well, camp is fun and the kids need more to do then hang out at home. And because the Moms don't want the responsibility for the kids for the entire day, it is too much. So the kids go to camp and Mom has the same free time that she does when her kids are at school. Are they some how awful people who want nothing to do with their children?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?


Got it. So only people who can afford to have some one stay at home should have kids. All those people who need to have two working parents should just for go kids.

I will make sure to pass that info on to my son.


Oh please. Camps cost hundreds a week and DCUMer's want to live in McMansions at minimum. It is a choice in this area for the most part and you know it. Most parents don't want to parent or take care of their home anymore and that is just the way it is. Nannies, babysitters, summer camps, landscapers, housecleaners, auto detail, dry cleaners, tutors, private lessons, dog walkers, etc... Outsource it all and keep working "because you have to."


Not all of us live in McMansions and pay for massively expensive camps or out source everything. I try not to generalize about SAHM because I know there are a variety of reasons for people to stay at home. I am glad for the folks who make that choice and enjoy their decision. More power to you. How about you stop judging me? There are a good number of working parents in this thread who have said they enjoy summer vacation for a variety of reasons.

I know SAHMs that I know are sending their kids to camp because, well, camp is fun and the kids need more to do then hang out at home. And because the Moms don't want the responsibility for the kids for the entire day, it is too much. So the kids go to camp and Mom has the same free time that she does when her kids are at school. Are they some how awful people who want nothing to do with their children?
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So you are assuming all families that don't have two FT working parents, only have a SAHM and those SAHM have free time during the day. Wow - talk about judging. Many people have stay at home Dads. Many work PT while kids are at school. Some work split shifts so someone is always with the kids. Others work from home. Please educate yourself on what families do to be a part of their kid's lives.
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This is only the 6th day of summer vacation for my DS. I am so happy he has the whole summer ahead. I always take off the last 5 weeks of his break so I am never in a rush for him to go back to school as it means I have to go back to work
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Wow OP - I absolutely love having my kids home. Sounds like you need to go back to work and hire a nanny to raise the kids with a bit more enthusiasm.
Anonymous
Working parent and I hate summer. Camp is further away than aftercare, and she's FAR more tired than school/aftercare which leads us to "beast mode" at least three times a week. Ugh.

I mean I am looking forward to our beach vacation but normal day to day is much easier during the school year. Less driving, less attitude, less exhaustion (from all parties).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?


Got it. So only people who can afford to have some one stay at home should have kids. All those people who need to have two working parents should just for go kids.

I will make sure to pass that info on to my son.


Oh please. Camps cost hundreds a week and DCUMer's want to live in McMansions at minimum. It is a choice in this area for the most part and you know it. Most parents don't want to parent or take care of their home anymore and that is just the way it is. Nannies, babysitters, summer camps, landscapers, housecleaners, auto detail, dry cleaners, tutors, private lessons, dog walkers, etc... Outsource it all and keep working "because you have to."


Not all of us live in McMansions and pay for massively expensive camps or out source everything. I try not to generalize about SAHM because I know there are a variety of reasons for people to stay at home. I am glad for the folks who make that choice and enjoy their decision. More power to you. How about you stop judging me? There are a good number of working parents in this thread who have said they enjoy summer vacation for a variety of reasons.

I know SAHMs that I know are sending their kids to camp because, well, camp is fun and the kids need more to do then hang out at home. And because the Moms don't want the responsibility for the kids for the entire day, it is too much. So the kids go to camp and Mom has the same free time that she does when her kids are at school. Are they some how awful people who want nothing to do with their children?


I’m not judging WOH or SAH parents in general (I’m not the poster to whom you are replying). But I really don’t get the SAHPs who put their kids in camp for all/most of the summer. And no, these folks don’t need the childcare. To me, two big points of staying home are time with kids & not needing to pay for childcare. So, I don’t get that. But everyone makes their own choices.
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Dh became a teacher partially to avoid the rigamarole in the summer. The kids still get to choose a short camp to do that interests them. Sometimes they're both gone at the same time, sometimes not.

I take a week in July and a week in August so we can go away as a family.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? When mine were younger I felt this way but now (8 and 11) I love summer.

Also, I think working parents love summer more than SAH parents.


Either way, someone else is raising their kids most of the day. They don't really care.


Exactly. What is the difference if you do t see them until 6pm each day?


Got it. So only people who can afford to have some one stay at home should have kids. All those people who need to have two working parents should just for go kids.

I will make sure to pass that info on to my son.


Oh please. Camps cost hundreds a week and DCUMer's want to live in McMansions at minimum. It is a choice in this area for the most part and you know it. Most parents don't want to parent or take care of their home anymore and that is just the way it is. Nannies, babysitters, summer camps, landscapers, housecleaners, auto detail, dry cleaners, tutors, private lessons, dog walkers, etc... Outsource it all and keep working "because you have to."


Not all of us live in McMansions and pay for massively expensive camps or out source everything. I try not to generalize about SAHM because I know there are a variety of reasons for people to stay at home. I am glad for the folks who make that choice and enjoy their decision. More power to you. How about you stop judging me? There are a good number of working parents in this thread who have said they enjoy summer vacation for a variety of reasons.

I know SAHMs that I know are sending their kids to camp because, well, camp is fun and the kids need more to do then hang out at home. And because the Moms don't want the responsibility for the kids for the entire day, it is too much. So the kids go to camp and Mom has the same free time that she does when her kids are at school. Are they some how awful people who want nothing to do with their children?


I’m not judging WOH or SAH parents in general (I’m not the poster to whom you are replying). But I really don’t get the SAHPs who put their kids in camp for all/most of the summer. And no, these folks don’t need the childcare. To me, two big points of staying home are time with kids & not needing to pay for childcare. So, I don’t get that. But everyone makes their own choices.


Because camps can be fun. You find something the kid likes and you let them do that all day. Many kids enjoy camp. My Mom was a SAHM and we did not go to camp. I was always jealous of my friends who got to go to camp because their camps sounded great. I liked going to the beach but I didn't want to go every day, we lived in a beach town. I enjoyed playing outside but it got tedious. I enjoyed reading but there is only so much that I could read. Being at home was fine but kind of boring. I loved the 2-3 weeks I got to go to over night camp each summer. It was heaven. There was swimming, and canoes, and hiking, and horse back riding, and all sorts of other activities to do. Many day camps are similar.

There are kids who enjoying chilling at home and hanging out. There are kids who want to be active. There are kids who love STEM camps and robotics. There are kids who love drama camp.

Camp is about child care for my kid but if that was all it was we would choose something that is less expensive and closer to home and drop him there. Camp is about his having fun and working on social skills and maybe learning something new. He is making friends, renewing friendships, and having fun. For some kids it is all about the social or the skill. Why wouldn't a kid who has a parent at home benefit from that experience?

I would imagine that SAHP are used to having time to themselves during the day when their kids are at school. Why would it be surprising that some SAHP might want to maintain some of that solo time by sending their child to a camp? I know that there are half day camps, morning and afternoon, that some people use.

So the SAHMs I know, I don't know any SAHD, send their kids to some camps. Most of them don't go every week but pick and choose camps that the kids would enjoy.

I enjoy summer with my child. We go to the pool on the weekend. We have some vacations planned. We are going to go backpacking. It is fun. I try and pick him up early from camp some days and he gets annoyed with me. Seriously, he has asked if he has to leave early because event X is coming up and he wants to do event X. I love hearing his stories and hearing about what he did that day.

(shrugs)



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I’m not sure why there’s the assumption that no camps means lots of time at home. In addition to swim team and swimming for fun, we meet up with friends, go hiking a lot, visit museums, and do a lot of day trips there’s no time for during the school year.
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Anonymous wrote:The real question is how many days until the kids go back to school?

Can’t wait till 58!l more days


I love having mine home. So, 58 days is too soon.
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