Is it okay to ghost an SP?
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Anonymous
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Do him a favor and don’t contact him. If he wants to chase you, he knows where you are.
No one wants crazy. |
Anonymous
| You sound like you need help. You are incredibly immature and have a quick trigger - from past partners misdeeds? You need to be more confident and stop going off on something perceived as a slight. |
Anonymous
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The what is SP poster is the best part of the thread. Sex partner? Special person? Someone pissed? Perfectly timed comic relief.
OP just tell us how you went "crazy" and his response that hurt you. I guess some guys turn it off after they climax. There are endorphin experts here that can explain. You needed something from him that he didn't give you. Chances are he's not the one. Ghost if that's truly what your heart wants to do. You owe him nothing. As it has been said, if a guy wants you...he'll make it very clear. Sorry you're hurting 
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Anonymous
| I disagree that the comments are irrelevant. They reflect whether or not he deserves a response. |
Anonymous
| If SP means sh-t pipe then no, you cannot ghost your SP. At least I wouldn't recommend it. |
Anonymous
| I wouldn't ghost him but would not see or sleep with him again either. I'd just respond, "This isn't working out for me anymore. I wish you the best, but please don't contact me again." |
Anonymous
| Grow up and be mature- have a difficult conversation in an adult manner. Never ghost anyone- ever! |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Some penis? Sexual predator? Sicilian prince? |
Anonymous
| South Park? Smashing Pumpkins? |
Anonymous
| Shady Poster. |
Anonymous
| Silly Poodle? Stupid Prick? |
Anonymous
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NP and I would REALLY love for someone to just type out what SP is supposed to stand for.
It could mean many things. And sure.."context clues are your friend" as another poster put it...so one would assume it's "sexual partner"? That said, if OP is a Scientologist, then SP could mean Supressive Person...in which case your "religion" requires you to ghost the SP immediately. |
Anonymous
DP, Just to add on... I really need to know so I figure out if it should actually be “a SP” not “an SP” in the title. 
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Anonymous
This. Ghosting is immature, inconsiderate, and rude. You don’t even have to have the conversation, if it’s too hard to do. You can text. “Hey, I don’t want to pursue this anymore.” is better than ghosting. |