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What houses now are 800k that feed into those schools that a family of 4 could comfortably live in? |
| This is what I would do. I would pay off the 90k debt. Simultaneously not fund 529 right now. Then add to your current savings and buy a house in the burns for 600k, near a metro. My door to door commute from DC to a VA suburb is only 35 mins in am and 45 mins in pm. If that’s too much then oh well. |
| Meant burbs. How old are you guys and what’s your NW, retirement and outside retirement? If House was important, I would reduce retirement by a tad bit just till downpayment of 20% available. |
There aren't a ton but they pop up. Mostly duplexes or small row houses that haven't been updated. They aren't exactly HGTV ready but they are perfectly nice houses that plenty of families would be happy in. |
What metro, and what part of DC? |
Show me one. |
Not with daycare and rent. Not with 2 people contributing max to 401k, FSA and health. Not with another baby in the way. |
I see plenty of 3 bedrooms sold over last year for under $800k https://www.redfin.com/DC/Washington/4818-41st-St-NW-20016/home/9961102?utm_source=ios_share&utm_medium=share&utm_campaign=copy_link&utm_nooverride=1&utm_content=link |
Here's another. https://www.redfin.com/DC/Washington/3728-Albemarle-St-NW-20016/home/9972252 |
If you were under pressure to pay down a $90K loan within a one-year window, you wouldn't be making any retirement contributions, let alone maxing them. You wouldn't pay $2K a month for daycare or $3K a month for rent--there are many cheaper options for both. You would make different choices on all of that to free up the necessary money. (Again, not saying OP should do any of this--of course not! But the idea that you can't possibly figure out how to cover basic needs in DC on $5500 a month if you had to is insane. People do it every day.) To that end, one way that OP can ramp up the downpayment savings would be to temporarily reduce retirement contributions. (A 401(k) loan for the downpayment could also boost it a bit.) They should also go through their budget to identify some of the smaller expenses like meals out and work to reduce those and capture all of those savings for the house, too. If you each get a latte three times a week and can cut that out to make coffee at home, there's $1K right there. The small things add up over the course of a year. Make a plan for when you ideally hope to buy and then backwards map from there to figure out what you need to shift to get to the downpayment. |
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Not that I would encourage you to be house poor but we only put down 15% and it wasn't that big of a deal. People act like it's the worst thing in the world, but we stretched our budget a bit to get a bigger house, and here's how it went down:
For 2 years we had to pay a $220 monthly PMI. After two years, mostly due to house appreciation but in part to paying down our principle a bit, we were able to demonstrate that we had more than 20% equity in our house and get the PMI removed. All told it cost us 220x24 months = $5280. Obviously avoiding that payment would have been better but it would have taken us literally years to save up the last 5% of our down payment. Instead, we got into our house and watched prices go up around us a lot more than $5k over two years, I guarantee that. Plus we got a great mortgage rate (late 2012) but that was luck. Alternatively, maybe we should have gotten a smaller house. But our family has grown from 2 to 4 in that time, and we feel zero pressure to move, which wouldn't have been the case otherwise. We'll stay in this house at least 3 years longer than we could have a smaller house. I'm confident those three years with our (now relatively) low mortgage and interest are worth more than the $5k we paid in PMI. Obviously a lot of this is specific to our situation but I wanted to mention it because people act like putting down less than 20% is on par with, like, payday loans or something in terms of financial irresponsibility. But I'm really confident that it was a great option for us that will yield us 10s of thousands of dollars in the long run. |
Sure, but life ebbs and flows. We decreased our 401k when we had two in daycare. When we had one in daycare, we upped it a bit. When our second got out of daycare, we upped it again. Unless you make a TON of money, you can't do everything all the time, but you can choose different priorities. Owning a home could pay off a lot in the long run so it might be worth decreasing other savings in the short term. |