I am a single mom too, but I learned a long time ago to live within my means. Anyone who pays $3000 in rent should not be doing so at a stretch. |
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But it's a fundraiser, right? So how would they raise money through the auction if not for ticket sales? Where is it being held? Sometimes the way the event is structured makes it difficult for tickets to be cheaper.
I think in order to be inclusive they could come up with a sliding scale for tickets. The event doesn't necessarily have to be at a fancy hotel, it could be a simple affair on the school grounds, or some such. |
She could also do have restrictions on where she lives in her divorce agreement. My parents’ agreement had a strict distance clause back in the day that really limited both my parents given other practical constraints. |
| Just be glad that other people buy the tickets and the high-priced auction items and that that benefits all the kids at the school. That is the point. Would you rather the school not have the auction funds? |
Not a Janney parent, but this. The whole reason why Janney is desirable is because the parents are able to fundraise and help improve the school. You can't afford it or don't like to participate? Fine. But why criticize others whose support benefits the whole school? |
| They are $85 each. Just keeping it accurate. |
+1 My kid's school (not Janney) does an auction with a $ ticket too. It's part of the reason we have a really good PTA. Not everyone participates, and that's ok. Those who can, do. |
You can have the fundraiser and still raise funds via auction, experiences. My school only charges the per person cost of the event (venue and food, alcohol is donated, don’t need to make a profit on that). Works out to $30-$40. Free tickets for any family that asks (through a dedicated staff member no parents) no questions asked. The funds are raised via donations and auctions. They still raise a significant amount. Personally, I think it’s more important to be inclusive to all families than to make a few extra thousand on door charge. Maybe having a $30 door charge will allow that boarder person to have $50 to buy a gift card. I know it’s all the same money but they’d be impactful thinking they had a direct effect. |
As a teacher I refuse to offer those items. |
| The auction IS at the school. It’s a pretty dull affair and I skip it (we pay the requested SFF amount for both kids, so I’ve done my part financially). Judging from my third graders’ parents, many do the same. |
They’re $85 each now and go to $100 each 3 weeks before the auction. |
We got ours for $75 each. It's still a lot of money, but we've also given less money to Janney's PTA this year (including the suggested per-student donation) than we routinely did to the Title I charter our child went to when we lived EOTP. |
So what you are saying is that your school gets free stuff. Wow, helpful. |
| Listen, I'd be lower end at this school and I don't usually have an extra $200/mo, but the entire point of the event is to raise money. Can't afford it? Don't go. |
I don’t get your sarcasm. What they get free they also have to rent space because our charter doesn’t have luxury of having space to have it onsite. Not sure why the snark. Underlying message was to show that they don’t make a penny off the door fee. They’d rather be inclusive and try to push a larger auction. They also don’t auction individual access experiences which I appreciate. |