I give up! He has a wife.

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy and I just like to be likable to people I meet/interact with - so maybe I smile a lot and I am outgoing, express an interest in things you are talking about. I know for a fact that women sometimes interpret my extroverted personality as flirting (but I am not)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:This happened to me many times in my past. Happily married now for 15 years. Don’t expend mental energy on that ass,OP. Just move on. You’ll meet someone great.

I really don’t think I will. I’m in my mid 30s . I’ve been waiting for someone great for as long as you’ve been married.

What are you doing to actively meet available men? Waiting around is not really going to cut it.

Sitting at home waiting for Prince Charming to show up at my doorstep.

Princes are dimwitted and useless (see: the Windsor family).

[Anonymous]

Flirtation without any intent to back it up is false advertising and annoying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Flirtation without any intent to back it up is false advertising and annoying.

I like to keep in practice!

Plenty of women like it when you signal, by flirting, that you find them attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do people with spouses flirt? I seriously have zero luck with men. I’m just going to give in to what the universe seems to want for me, cats are cute.

The spouse is probably thinking the same thing (I know I am).

This is not about you.

Wow, how rude.

[Anonymous]

Op, have you posted before?

[Anonymous]

I have a few single male friends in their 30s and a lot of them told me they're really hesitant on flirting now because of the #metoo stuff. They'll flirt at a bar, but not at any other public place like a coffee shop, gym, and definitely not at work. I think women need to start making the first move more these days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a few single male friends in their 30s and a lot of them told me they're really hesitant on flirting now because of the #metoo stuff. They'll flirt at a bar, but not at any other public place like a coffee shop, gym, and definitely not at work. I think women need to start making the first move more these days.

+1

[Anonymous]

I was out with friends one night, playing wingman for a friend who met a cute guy who was also out with friends. Ended up talking to one of them, who was cute and nice and had a wedding ring. He told me, "I wish I was my Dad's religion (Mormon) so I could marry you too! You're really cool." Possibly the weirdest compliment I've ever received, but it made me smile.

I've had great chemistry with married men in the past, because sometimes you just do have great chemistry with people, regardless of their status. Sometimes being married or in a relationship gives people the confidence and "don't give a sh*t" quality that makes it easy to converse with strangers. It's easy to get discouraged and think "all the good ones are married" (and sometimes they do seem to be) but maybe an unmarried good one is around the corner. Good luck, OP!

[Anonymous]

Married men are the worst. At 40, my now target audience is apparently 50-55 year old men, as that is what I seem to be attracting lately. They are all married and all very willing to cheat on their wives if given the greenlight.

I divorced a habitual cheater 5 years ago, and it really is disheartening to think that most men cheat.


I find it terribly offensive to be offered the part of "supporting role" as the side piece. No thanks. I am your co-star or nothing. I will not help you disrespect your wife and marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married men are the worst. At 40, my now target audience is apparently 50-55 year old men, as that is what I seem to be attracting lately. They are all married and all very willing to cheat on their wives if given the greenlight.

I divorced a habitual cheater 5 years ago, and it really is disheartening to think that most men cheat.


I find it terribly offensive to be offered the part of "supporting role" as the side piece. No thanks. I am your co-star or nothing. I will not help you disrespect your wife and marriage.

Amen!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married men are the worst. At 40, my now target audience is apparently 50-55 year old men, as that is what I seem to be attracting lately. They are all married and all very willing to cheat on their wives if given the greenlight.

I divorced a habitual cheater 5 years ago, and it really is disheartening to think that most men cheat.


I find it terribly offensive to be offered the part of "supporting role" as the side piece. No thanks. I am your co-star or nothing. I will not help you disrespect your wife and marriage.

At 40, why is your target 50-55? I am 41...might be divorced in a year or two. My target would be 38-49. (Everyone says I look much younger than my age.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married men are the worst. At 40, my now target audience is apparently 50-55 year old men, as that is what I seem to be attracting lately. They are all married and all very willing to cheat on their wives if given the greenlight.

I divorced a habitual cheater 5 years ago, and it really is disheartening to think that most men cheat.


I find it terribly offensive to be offered the part of "supporting role" as the side piece. No thanks. I am your co-star or nothing. I will not help you disrespect your wife and marriage.

At 40, why is your target 50-55? I am 41...might be divorced in a year or two. My target would be 38-49. (Everyone says I look much younger than my age.)

That's the age I attract. The men all look good so there is not issue with that just the marital status "thing"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married men are the worst. At 40, my now target audience is apparently 50-55 year old men, as that is what I seem to be attracting lately. They are all married and all very willing to cheat on their wives if given the greenlight.

I divorced a habitual cheater 5 years ago, and it really is disheartening to think that most men cheat.


I find it terribly offensive to be offered the part of "supporting role" as the side piece. No thanks. I am your co-star or nothing. I will not help you disrespect your wife and marriage.

At 40, why is your target 50-55? I am 41...might be divorced in a year or two. My target would be 38-49. (Everyone says I look much younger than my age.)

Wow. You already on Tinder?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a few single male friends in their 30s and a lot of them told me they're really hesitant on flirting now because of the #metoo stuff. They'll flirt at a bar, but not at any other public place like a coffee shop, gym, and definitely not at work. I think women need to start making the first move more these days.

+1

Stop! What is wrong with your friends that flirting could be mistaken for rape .