Do you have the perfect husband?

[Anonymous]

Yes... He does all of the above, can have sex all night long, satisfies all my sexual needs, wants and desires and is hung like a donkey.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, my definition of perfect is probably different from yours.

I don't care if he cooks, I love cooking.
Thoughtful - yes, very.
Buys special presents - not all the time, but on big occasions like milestone birthdays/anniversaries - yes.
Treats me like a princess - no, and I would hate that. I'm not a princess. He does treat me like an equal partner, which I love.
Makes good money - good enough for me. We earn about the same.

In addition - he's fun, makes me smile. He shares equally in all kid-rearing and household duties. He supports my efforts to get ahead in my career, by taking care of the kids and arranging childcare as needed. We take fun, active vacations together. We have some joint hobbies and some separate hobbies. We're partners in everything.

This PP and I have similar definitions of perfect and similar (perfect for us) husbands.

[Anonymous]

My DH isn't perfect but I'd be miserable without him.

[Anonymous]

I am very happy with mine 20+ years later. He is more organized than me, does laundry, can fold it in a way that it doesn’t need to be ironed, and can even fold a fitted sheet (where I just roll it in a ball). I’m keeping him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Which of you here has the "perfect husband?"

The guy who would do anything for you. Cook you delicious dinners, be thoughtful, buy you special presents and treat you like a princess. As a bonus he always makes good money?

Is this real life? Tell me about it.

I have a husband like this. He also gives me awesome massage! His income is good but not enough for me to be a SAHM. I swear I could do anything and he would never get upset. He immediately agrees with me whenever I am upset with him too. He will criticise himself, call himself bad names etcetera. It's impossible to stay mad at him. He does have flaws but we're very happy together. My husband is from a completely different culture BTW. I think it helps.

[Anonymous]

He’s perfect for me, but that doesn’t mean being my servants or buying me stuff. It’s being kind, patient, affectionate, and humorous. And sexy although we’re middle aged and I’m winter chubby six weeks ahead of schedule.

[Anonymous]

Perfect for me. I think you find perfection when you accept someone flaws and all. If their imperfections are all you see you have no time to be grateful for all they do for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which of you here has the "perfect husband?"

The guy who would do anything for you. Cook you delicious dinners, be thoughtful, buy you special presents and treat you like a princess. As a bonus he always makes good money?

Is this real life? Tell me about it.

I have a husband like this. He also gives me awesome massage! His income is good but not enough for me to be a SAHM. I swear I could do anything and he would never get upset. He immediately agrees with me whenever I am upset with him too. He will criticise himself, call himself bad names etcetera. It's impossible to stay mad at him. He does have flaws but we're very happy together. My husband is from a completely different culture BTW. I think it helps.

What in the hell does that mean? What does culture have to do with it? We can all name good and bad husbands from every culture.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which of you here has the "perfect husband?"

The guy who would do anything for you. Cook you delicious dinners, be thoughtful, buy you special presents and treat you like a princess. As a bonus he always makes good money?

Is this real life? Tell me about it.

I have a husband like this. He also gives me awesome massage! His income is good but not enough for me to be a SAHM. I swear I could do anything and he would never get upset. He immediately agrees with me whenever I am upset with him too. He will criticise himself, call himself bad names etcetera. It's impossible to stay mad at him. He does have flaws but we're very happy together. My husband is from a completely different culture BTW. I think it helps.

He sounds passive aggressive or he's just ignoring your concerns to shut you up. Watch out!!!