Husband freaking out

[Anonymous]

Why the hell would you wake him up at 930 if he doesn't need to be ready to leave till 11??? Why would a guy need an hour to get ready to go see a buffet? You should have woken him up at 10 or 1015.

I'd be super annoyed on his shoes. Don't do this again.

[Anonymous]

Did you get fat

[Anonymous]

I think I put an extreme value on sleep but I don’t see the issue with what he’s doing. I’d either go on my own or if that’s not possible, I’d just wake him around the time I know he’d need to be up with a cuddle and a kiss and some coffee and ask him if he’d please come with me. I think the first few moments Of the day are very important-they set the tone for the whole rest of the day.

[Anonymous]

I have never snapped at my kid for waking me up. But I'd be pretty annoyed if DH acted like OP. He said yes once, you don't need to keep harping on it. Op is going to be a bad parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What time do you actually need to leave?

If someone woke me up to ask me to wake up in 30 minutes, I’d be pissed off. If I need to wake up in 30 minutes, wake me up in 30 minutes. JFC. What a weird thing to do. And if I were waking up to run an errand like this that I don’t care about, I’d need about 5 minutes to get ready. I wouldn’t need 45 minutes of prep time, so if you woke me 30 minutes before you thought I needed to be up, then at the actual time you thought I needed to be up, and it turns out that’s 30 minutes earlier than I really need, I’d be irritable all over again.

Nailed it.

[Anonymous]

You’ve posted about this before - another time you tried to wake him up to go to brunch, and he freaked out on you then too, right??

Obviously your DH values his sleep.dont make morning plans anymore, problem solved.

[Anonymous]

Why can't you go without the DH? The last person I want with me on a shopping expedition is my DH. Call a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Asking twice is nagging. I’d also be annoyed. If you have kids, it’s like when your kid asks you for something over and over. Obnoxious.

That being said, I’d be irked if my spouse was sleeping in that late.

Yes, but twice isn’t a million times.

Do not reproduce with him, OP.

Yeah it is. I can't imagine being asked the same thing 3, 4, or 5 times and I hope for sake of your marriage you aren't haranguing someone either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We need to get a buffet for our dining room. I found one for our dining room onnfacebook market place. The seller asked if we can come by 11 today.

I try to wake up my sleeping husband, “baby can you wake up early enough so we can get there by 11?
Him sleepily, “whatever you want”
Me, “ baby it’s 9:30 am. Can you wake up by 10:00 am so we can get ready to go?”
Him, “ I told you yes a million times!!! Why can’t you aleave me alone??”

He yells at me and puts his head under the pillow and falls back asleep.

...wtf??

Sounds like YOU need the buffet, not him. Why are you dragging a man to see a freaking buffet?

[Anonymous]

"Baby, it is 9:30, can you wake up by 10 so we can get ready to go?" WTF? Who does that?Who wakes someone up to tell them to wake up in half an hour?! And he said yes already! What is your problem lady?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Baby, it is 9:30, can you wake up by 10 so we can get ready to go?" WTF? Who does that?Who wakes someone up to tell them to wake up in half an hour?! And he said yes already! What is your problem lady?

C'mon, people. She's dealing with a "just 10 more minutes" type. Be fair.

[Anonymous]

He has to go because she can’t carry it herself!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.

We do not have children. I am just thinking if a little kid wakes up early and tries to wake him, will he blow up then too?

I’d be more worried about how you play the victim to manipulate people. If you do that to children, it’ll mess them up and create anxiety. Stop being so melodramatic.

+1 you sound insufferable OP. Also, nobody “needs” a sideboard. YOU want one and are imposing yourself on him.

[Anonymous]

Does he work a night shift? Why else would an adult sleep until 10?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does he work a night shift? Why else would an adult sleep until 10?

I happily slept that late prekids.