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A landscaper is more likely to know how to help you with your car than someone in a suit. He might have more time.
DH is an engineer and can't resist stopping helping stranded motorists when he has time. We're middle class. |
Give what you want to give. But at that income level, 1% of your income is being cheap. |
| Not necessarily...I’ve met those then the opposite. |
So what? Many churches do good work with soup kitchens etc. the rich donate more to their alma matters and the arts, which benefit mostly affluent segments of society. |
Jesus. You think? |
| I think that being poor can bring out different sides of people - some good, some not so good. Same thing goes with having money. |
| When you're used to living without much money, you find other things in life that make you happy. The best things in life are free. It's true! |
| When driving around town, I have observed the folks with the fancier vehicles rarely roll down the window to hand $1 to a panhandler. Others with normal or beat up vehicles tend to do it much more frequently. Either the rich are selfish, fearful of the poor or both. |
Yup. No one said all poor people are nice, anymore than all rich people are nasty. But on average I think poorer people are more connected to those around them. They have to be. |
+1. Yea....they do it to get tax break and to tell others they contribute to charity, non profit, etc. BS. |
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I like the book Moll Flanders - extreme wealth and poverty both corrupt. Obviously this is not true across the board but food for thought.
I will say I’ve been very pregnant on a train and no one offered me a seat but a homeless person asked me if I wanted him to ask people to get up for me. |
Panhandling is not is not a full-time job. However, I've seen the same people panhandling at the same locations for years. My choice to not give an able bodied person money everyday as I drive to work when we have full employment and there are tons of jobs available doesn't make me cheap it make the panhander lazy. |
Could you by chance be a panhandlers who wrote your post from your smart phone? |
| We grew up poor and just now becoming middle class - my mom and dad always said to help others because while we may not have money we can still make a difference in the world. So yes, random things like helping stranded motorists, carry groceries for the elderly, giving comfort to someone grieving, handing a 20$ to those kids selling water and candy, helping someone buy a fridge from Craigslist and carry it to their place, the smallest things. And we donate to hospitals as much as we can because we only recently got health insurance. |
| I would not stop to help you because I do not know how to fix cars. |