What Kind Of Ring..

[Anonymous]

It’s the sentiment and not the money. Know your woman of course. I’ve got a lovely engagement ring I don’t wear because I’m not flashy. It’s a gorgeous ring. It felt weird a couple years in as it was too much for everyday. Too many comments on the ring. It’s stuck in a drawer. $11k later.

I wish he’d have proposed with a twist tie. The ring was a silly expense.

[Anonymous]

What’s your budget

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What’s your budget

OP here. I don’t have a budget.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s the sentiment and not the money. Know your woman of course. I’ve got a lovely engagement ring I don’t wear because I’m not flashy. It’s a gorgeous ring. It felt weird a couple years in as it was too much for everyday. Too many comments on the ring. It’s stuck in a drawer. $11k later.

I wish he’d have proposed with a twist tie. The ring was a silly expense.

This is not most women. Most women want a ring and the bigger the better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What’s your budget

OP here. I don’t have a budget.

Well that’s your first problem. Rings can range from 1000 bucks to 100,000. Setting a budget will help to narrow things.

You should definitely ask her friends. Even though she might not wear much jewelry she might have something in mind in particular. I am not that into jewelry but for some reason had my heart set on a rose gold halo split shank ring with a eternity wedding band. There is zero percent chance that my now DH would have known that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s the sentiment and not the money. Know your woman of course. I’ve got a lovely engagement ring I don’t wear because I’m not flashy. It’s a gorgeous ring. It felt weird a couple years in as it was too much for everyday. Too many comments on the ring. It’s stuck in a drawer. $11k later.

I wish he’d have proposed with a twist tie. The ring was a silly expense.

This is not most women. Most women want a ring and the bigger the better.

Agree with your first sentence, and the first part of your second sentence. Completely disagree with the second part of your second sentence. And OP's fiancé to be certainly doesn't sound like she falls under that

[Anonymous]

OP ask her sister or best friend.

[Anonymous]

don't ask anyone. most people are not so catty that they want their friends or family members knowing before them. you aren't asking them or her father to marry, you are asking HER.

you do not even need a damn ring to propose and get engaged. that can be a fun shopping trip together later. I find it hilariously stupid when guys postpone proposing in order to plan a trip, agonize over a ring, book a photographer, plan a surprise party. what a bunch of silliness. If that's her thing, go for it, take months and months. For most women it is not. I hate attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

gentry wrote:-White gold
-One carat round cut solitaire with high clarity and color
-Don't spend $10k. A woman that doesn't pride jewelry probably wouldn't see a high price tag as reasonable or practical. Shoot for $3-4k.
-A simple solitaire will also allow you to let her pick out a wrap as her wedding ring.

I love Reeds Jewelers personally. ie- https://www.reeds.com/classic-round-diamond-solitaire-engagement-ring-1ct-plu18962472.html

I disagree. I don't wear a lot of jewelry and never have. I value my ring and appreciate the quality, cut and clarity. It's a little less than a carat but stunning (to me) and simple. I don't like what I consider big flashy jewelry or intricate designs. I did not pick out my own ring nor did he confer with friends as they would have told me.

You need better friends.

-- Someone who advised a friend's now-DH on his ring selection...and she loved/loves it and was totally surprised! I introduced them, and I would never, for the world, have ruined the surprise.

[Anonymous]

https://www.costco.com/Round-Brilliant-1.95-ctw-VS1-Clarity%2c-F-Color-Diamond-Baguette-Platinum-Ring.product.100368457.html

[Anonymous]

A silver band w/a pink diamond a ‘la Bennifer.

That was the most beautiful engagement piece I have truly ever seen in my life!

Nothing too large + ostentatious like Paris Hilton or Hailey Baldwin.

[Anonymous]

PP is right on! My DH did this, and as I called various family members from the limosine he had waiting, one asked what my ring looked like. I didn't even realize I didn't have one. I asked him, and with his response, I knew I had the right guy. He said, "you don't think I'd pick out a ring that you will wear the rest of your life without input from you, do you?"

Or, ask her best friend what she wants.

[Anonymous]

Do what my husband did. We went ring shopping together, I tried on a bunch of stuff and told him what I liked and didn't like and why, and then he bought a ring. We were clear up front that we were not going to talk about the cost of anything, so it took the pressure off of both of us. We had fun, actually, because it was just about trying stuff on, and I tried on things I didn't think I would even like, and he still got to surprise me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

gentry wrote:-White gold
-One carat round cut solitaire with high clarity and color
-Don't spend $10k. A woman that doesn't pride jewelry probably wouldn't see a high price tag as reasonable or practical. Shoot for $3-4k.
-A simple solitaire will also allow you to let her pick out a wrap as her wedding ring.

I love Reeds Jewelers personally. ie- https://www.reeds.com/classic-round-diamond-solitaire-engagement-ring-1ct-plu18962472.html

I disagree. I don't wear a lot of jewelry and never have. I value my ring and appreciate the quality, cut and clarity. It's a little less than a carat but stunning (to me) and simple. I don't like what I consider big flashy jewelry or intricate designs. I did not pick out my own ring nor did he confer with friends as they would have told me.

You need better friends.

-- Someone who advised a friend's now-DH on his ring selection...and she loved/loves it and was totally surprised! I introduced them, and I would never, for the world, have ruined the surprise.

My friends are great. They are not judgy and hypercritical over one misstep or incident viewed through a very narrow and tiny lens.

--Someone with life long friends and a happy life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.costco.com/Round-Brilliant-1.95-ctw-VS1-Clarity%2c-F-Color-Diamond-Baguette-Platinum-Ring.product.100368457.html

This is actually a phenomenal deal and investment, that 1.75 center diamond at the best clarity and color level at half off!?! I might sell some stocks and buy it myself. Damn.