You can know what works for you. You can say you know what works for you. You cannot force a licensed professional to put that license on the line to do what you say, just because youa re saying it. |
True, but it is cruel for that “professional” to react by telling others you are drug-seeking and either discharge you without care or ignore you in a room for hours. |
I don't think that any patient ever deserves cruelty, or being ignored, or being disrespected. Professionals should be professionals. Language should be thoughtful, precise, and accurate -- and kind, as much as possible. That being said, there is no words you can use to explain to a patient that you are not going to prescribe what they think they need (but which it is in your medical judgment, and on your license, inappropriate) that goes over well. It can be done better or worse ways, but it is never welcomed. An emergency room is required to stabilize people. It is not there for longterm management. If you are discharged and stable, they have done their job. And I say this gently and sincerely -- often a big part of emergency room care is observation. Someone comes in with serious distress, and the examination, including vitals, is non-worrisome. You watch and wait to see if something worse develops. Ideally this is communicated to the patient -- sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't, and sometimes it is but the patient doesn't hear it. And sometimes a multi-car pile-up comes in and it's all hands on deck elsewhere. I hope you find a plan to move forward that works better than what has happened in the past. I'm sorry you are dealing with this on top of pain. |
My neurologist wants me to use them as a break from Imitrex as I take it daily so when it gets bad, because she gives me the max amount she can I have to limit what I take so in theory I need something stronger (which I've never done). You cannot or should not take two different triptans in 24 hours to make sure the first is out of your system. My migraines are so bad, I don't need anything for dental work, including for cavities. The 2 minutes of drilling is no big deal compared to my migranes. |
What does the above have to do with being flagged as drug seeking when you have an NSAID allergy? |
I’ve started carrying my medical files with me on my phone for this purpose. Saves time with judgemental medical folks and expensive tests.
Just give me the pain meds. |
NP. my understanding is phenergan is only a addictive when it is combined with codeine. |
Yes, I love the app that most providers use. It has easier the way somewhat, I understand that medical professionals get suspicious when they hear laymen use terms that they struggled to learn in nursing or med school. All I can say is that I was forced to educate myself about my condition and what works best for my body or has no positive effect at all. I don’t pretend to know about how anyone else should be treated, but if I don’t advocate for myself I know I will suffer needlessly, especially in a bust ER. That said, Holy Cross Hospital is my go to now. They know me and my doctor so I can usually keep the conversation short and simple. I also take a friend or family member with me if possible. No one looks their best when drenched with cold sweat from nausea or pain. I guess that gets mistaken for junkie. Take a well dressed and articulate advocate if possible. |
Remember, too, that there was a big push in the 80s and 90s that "pain is an emergency" and that pain was being undertreated & not taken seriously. This wasn't just a "big pharma" push -- it was patient advocacy. And so more pain meds were prescribed, by at least an order of magnitude.
And now there is pushback because of an opiod addiction crisis. Nobody wants a person to suffer in pain, but physicians remember where "listen to your patients" advocacy went too far before. There has to be a better balance point found, but I think the pushback is real. |
Our ER has full access to our medical and pharmacy records, which is nice but it doesn't really help as usually they don't take the time to read them. |
Happened to me recently, I had an accident with internal injury and internal bleeding, the pain was through the roof, they did not believe me, chastised me and conveniently "forgot" me in a waiting cubicle. Once CT scan showed internal bleeding, the er doc apologized but it did not take away from the crazy pain or being essentially abandoned while I as pleading for help. Oh well. I guess its the reality these days. |
The problem is that the health professional often is poorly informed when they make this call. They make all kinds of assumptions, don't listen to the patient or ask questions to find out what is really happening, and have the wrong idea of the situation. So they often think something is inappropriate because they don't have (nor want) the information that would provide the context for the request. It is easier and faster to just jump to a quick conclusion and prescribe something really easy, general, and safe where you don't even need to know the story. Very few doctors have any interest in outcomes or whether or not their treatment was effective or worked. They just want to move down the line and erase you off the board and get you out the door alive. |
The quickest way to get rid of you is just to give you a prescription for what you want. Apparently, that's not happening. |
PS: Also, ERs are supposed to stabilize. They are not designed or suited for longterm management -- they are supposed to keep you alive for the immediate foreseeable future.
If you need longterm management, you need an ongoing relationship with a primary care physician. If you've had multiple PCP relationships come to an end, then there is probably a pattern. |
There are plenty of medical terms that are outdated and disrespectful, because they established themselves in an age where people where judged in that way in all aspects of their lives.
"Advanced Maternal Age". "Incompetent cervix". The concepts of failure and insufficiency in medical language are sometimes extremely judgemental, particularly as they pertain to women. Of course. |