Am I just wasting my time?

[Anonymous]

This was a very strange post. I am guessing that the OP was aware that an issue could come up or had already come up and she was just trying to get insight into her situation by crowdsourcing. Well, if he had not left by this time, I would have told OP that enjoy the no commitments relationship because it is way way easier than keeping a marriage...Anyways, too late now I guess.