Well done, OP. This is a really special and impactful way of using your money. Not sure how much that was, but if you have kids in public school or ties to any teachers in your neighborhood, a big gift certificate to a teacher supply store could be another really meaningful way to share your windfall. |
| You put a BOFA into a “sinking fund.” |
+1. You don't have any needs or wants that have not been covered except charity. I would create a Donor Advised Fund (DAF) and add some more money into it. Your DAF might be tax-deductible if you itemize your tax return this year. And then you can donate, say @ $2k or $5k a year in your deceased relative's name. It will be a mitzvah and it will make you feel good inside to boot. |
That's wonderful! |
| Don’t forget to file a gift tax return |
Don't ever buy this, because largely the milk is free. |
I love this. I was going to suggest saving it until Christmas and doing one of those Christmas Angel programs where you adopt a family and buy them gifts...but lots of families. |
| I would save it. |
| I am trying to figure out the mindset of someone who considers getting significantly less that 1% of her net worth to be a windfall. |
Really? I am only worth about $300k but I would be pretty psyched to get a windfall of $3k. |
OP again. I already have a DAF that I funded with $30,000 in 2017 due to the tax changes in 2018. But, it's a good idea to put any "extra" money in there going forward, though there won't be a tax benefit any longer. Oh, and to the PP who spoke of a gift tax form, there is no need. You can give $15,000 to anyone with no tax implications or notice whatsoever. We will just have the gift come from both me and my DH. Nanny and I are arranging for a time to meet and she relayed that when she woke up the next morning, she had to ask her DH if it were a dream that I offered to do this. It's good to share with others! |
McLean Central Park does this too - for a few hundred, they put your name on a plaque. Guess it beats paying the high taxes of a new house? |
donate it to me. I have loans lol |
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To the OP--what a generous thing to do for your former nanny!
We also have a DAF and we didn't fund it further in 2017 so afraid we missed the mark on that; should have thought about that due to tax reform. |