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| I should have married a black women |
Let me tell you why students have to do this. In most cases its because of $. In our case my kids this year was accepted to multiple Ivies as well. Our financial aid packages were all over the place, literally, we got zero to very generous aid and everything in between. If you need money you cannot count on getting it in the EA round. ITS NOT FOR BRAGGING RIGHTS. These schools know how to pick HUMBLE kids! And the go on TV to help other kids they may not realize they can do it too. Some kids are not dead set on going to their EA choice - it is not binding, so you are free to apply in the ED rounds. I know other kids that were accepted to multiple top schools and are trying to be deliberate about making the choice. It's not fair for people to hate on these kids, hate on the system that has been created but not the kids. And no one here really knows all of the ins and outs of these kids applications and their financial situations. I speak from experience. Hating on these kids for this, smacks of entitlement. Deserving kids will get those spots when a final decision is made. |
I detect no bitterness or jealousy in this post. Just a grain of truth that some apparently want to call bitterness and jealousy. |
Your kid was so special he could entertain multiple offers or your kid had a hook? My kid also got into one, but if she had applied widely she would have gotten into zero as she would have been lost in a sea of applications. She picked her favorite school applied early and received admittance with a binding contract. We then fought tooth and nail for a small bit of financial aid. Different experience. |
What? This makes no sense. |
| Hooks get kids in. This is the way it is -- you either are the type of person they want (have the hooks) or you aren't. If you aren't, look elsewhere. |
Exactly! These Ivy League universities can fill their entire classes with students who have top grades/test scores AND hooks. Why in the world would you think that an unhooked student can get into all 8?!? By your own definition, there is nothing special about an unhooked kid, so that student should be thrilled and grateful to get into even one Ivy League school. |
This may make sense as a rationale to apply to 3 or 4 Ivies -- but all eight? C'mon, they are very different schools, in different settings, with different strengths and weaknesses. |
Also, most kids in the DMV would not have his applications/scores/etc if they had the same home/life/school as the ND boy and the Walls girl. |
There was a long thread on DCUM about the Indian girl from FFX Cty. She made the local and national news. |
The mother of the Walls girl is a Harvard educated lawyer. What kind of home life are you imaging for her? SMH |
| *imagining. - autocorrect |
lol. Right? Try again. |
What are you talking about? The SWW student probably has a better home life than your kids. |