Normal for daycare to change diaper only every two hours?

[Anonymous]

This thread is from 2009! The OP is probably more worried about potty training now.

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Anonymous wrote:You all are going to b laughing at yourselves in a year. FTM are funny.

Amen.

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The daycare should accommodate your daughter's needs for more frequent diaper changes. Our daughter had a sort of toddler tummy where she had bm 3-4 times a day and at our old daycare in Bethesda the teachers refused to check her/change her more often than every two hours and several times she came back home screaming with a HORRIBLE diaper rash. We also regularly, like 3x a week, found that when we picked up daughter that she had a poopy diaper that looked like it had been like that for a long time. We brought this up with the director who was not sympathetic and claimed the diaper changes were being done according to their schedule. I pointed out that it's impossible to ask our 17 month old daughter to only poop according to her schedule.

We immediately left this daycare. At our new daycare they check our daughter every hour and we have not had a problem with diaper rash at all and have never picked her up to find a dirty diaper!

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PP what is the name of this day care? That is criminal neglect. We had the same issue at our day care and they took it very seriously.

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I would be horrified if someone was only changing my baby every 2 hours! This means if your kid poops then they are sitting in a poop diaper for 2 hours!

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Anonymous wrote:PP what is the name of this day care? That is criminal neglect. We had the same issue at our day care and they took it very seriously.

Whaaat? It's criminal neglect for a kid to have a wet diaper (not poopy, not even that full) for two hours? If so, someone better come and take my kids away. From reading the OP, I assume that poopy diapers are changed immediately; it's pee diapers that are changed on a schedule. You certainly can't change after have pee -- I don't even know when my babies have peed.

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Anonymous wrote:PP what is the name of this day care? That is criminal neglect. We had the same issue at our day care and they took it very seriously.

You are looney tunes.

[Anonymous]

oh spare me - your baby doesn't know when the diaper is wet - unless seriously soaking - bc the diapers are designed not to feel wet. Really every 2 hours is sufficient. And you know what, they are just writing down every hour so they don't have to hear you whine every day.

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Anonymous wrote:oh spare me - your baby doesn't know when the diaper is wet - unless seriously soaking - bc the diapers are designed not to feel wet. Really every 2 hours is sufficient. And you know what, they are just writing down every hour so they don't have to hear you whine every day.

Some babies obviously can tell-one of mine cried every time he peed when he was small.

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Anonymous wrote:PP what is the name of this day care? That is criminal neglect. We had the same issue at our day care and they took it very seriously.

Whaaat? It's criminal neglect for a kid to have a wet diaper (not poopy, not even that full) for two hours? If so, someone better come and take my kids away. From reading the OP, I assume that poopy diapers are changed immediately; it's pee diapers that are changed on a schedule. You certainly can't change after have pee -- I don't even know when my babies have peed.

I was this poster. I was not saying that what the OP was describing was criminal neglect! I was referring to the PP who said her DD got terrible diaper rash due to sitting in poopy diapers, and the day care refused to change her any more frequently. I had the same issue with my child who similarly got horrible diaper rash bc the day care changed on a schedule as well. Seriously, my ped said it was clearly the result of sitting in a poopy diaper and not changed. This is neglect.

Sitting in a wet diaper for 2 hours? Not neglect.

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Anonymous wrote:It's been a long time since I was a mom to a newborn. But after three kids having gone through daycare, what I found is that unless there is a poop, changing is done on a schedule. Same thing happens when they toilet - they all line up and go at the preset time. My guess is that if she really hates it and cries when she is wet, they will change her more often. But, even from a very young age, kids behave differently in daycare than they do at home.

I agree completely with this. Unless your child is uncomfortable, they will change her on a schedule, and change her immediately when they notice a poopy diaper. Changing more frequently isn't really necessary, because poop usually causes diaper rash, not wet diapers. When I started daycare, I was really concerned because I thought they might let her stay in a poopy diaper for a couple of hours, but they change poopy diapers right away.

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My child is in daycare and I'm trying not to get mad,but I hope they not changing him every 2 hours because I don't change him like,they also keep his diapers and he better not every come home in with another diaper, cause I know his diaper,and I'm going get angry

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See i anit never heard a daycare keep they blanket, and diapers, and wipe cause ima tell I'm not bringing him diaper every day when I jus brought them a whole bag,that day care going make me real mad,ima raise hell

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Anonymous wrote:I am appauled at some of these responses! I am an in-home daycare provider and change diapers at least every hour! I cannot imagine letting a child sit in a wet diaper. Not only can it cause diaper rash...which is completely avoidable...but it also teaches children poor hygiene. This may sound a little dramatic but I would rather be guilty of changing too often that not enough. I believe in changing a diaper when it is wet OR dirty...every time. And, I would not by shy about cleaning her diaper area properly...no excuse for that. My daughter is 7 months and has never had a diaper rash and I cannot foresee one in the future. I am glad your provider was open to your request! That is a good sign she is qualified to provide good care.

Absurd, wasteful and horrible for the environment. Diapers these days are so absorbent that 2 hours is way more than I would do. My DD's only got diaper rash from poop. Never pee. Honestly, this sounds a bit OCD and as a parent I would be really frustrated if you changed my child this much. So wasteful and unnecessary.

[Anonymous]

From 2009!! But here's my .02 as an in home day care provider (and as I write this I'm watching the kids sleep).... every 2 hours and as needed is sufficient. Changing every hour is excessive, not only for the environment but because it's impractical and $$$ for the poor parents.