Husband Buys All My Clothes and Selects My WardRobe Daily plus Controlling

[Anonymous]

I just threw up in my mouth.

[Anonymous]

Troll.
Because in 20+ years this would only have escalated over time to an unbearable level, not just clothes.
Please regale us with how the rest of your relationship and family life us. You said you have a functioning adult daughter?

[Anonymous]

Take swimming lessons.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102945/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Take swimming lessons.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102945/

Well done.

[Anonymous]

Skittles wrote:Didn't realize your husband was a knock off Donald Trump.

Well we know it's not Bill Clinton, since he's given up on Hills long ago and has been banging bimbos on the side on a weekly basis.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Take swimming lessons.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102945/

Well done.

I forgot how good that movie is. Might need to watch it this again this weekend.

[Anonymous]

Not normal.

I think in 7 years my husband has bought me a flannel robe.

I'd leave. You can have a great second act ahead of you.

[Anonymous]

Your husband is awful.

[Anonymous]

Yuck

Gotta be a troll post.

[Anonymous]

Totally weird and controlled and abusive.

[Anonymous]

I also really hope this is fake. If not, I feel for you, OP. I truly hope you find the peace you deserve.

[Anonymous]

So if I find this a little hot, and I sick too?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband buys all my work outfits and selects the outfits I wear to work each day including shoes/heels and jewelry. Years ago, If I disagreed with any selections it became a big fight so I simply learned to 'go along'. He always selects form fitting dresses, heels, etc. tight slacks etc. Still looks professional but I am now in my 40s. He also makes me check in several times a day via face time to prove I am 'where' I'm supposed to be. He says it is for my own 'safety'. Half kiddingly (I think) he occasionally says that he dated my best friend in high school simply to get closer to me and that it was me he wanted all along. Ok, is all this abnormal or weird? Been together 27 years and married 22. Anyone else ever experience anything like this?

He took an inch and you gave him a mile. The only thing my DH has ever chosen for me was my engagement ring. You're in an abusive relationship darling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope this is a troll.

OP here..... I appreciate the honest feedback provided but I am not happy with the way my marriage is and the manner in which I've allowed my husband to make all decisions. My parents divorced when I was in high school and it was devastating to me and my younger brother. At the time, I said I'd never allow my children to have divorced parents. Looking back, I know I likely should have spoken up sooner but have never wanted our children to see us always fighting - thus the decision to just 'go along'.

You're not setting good examples of what a healthy marriage is and that breaks my heart for them

[Anonymous]

So what would you say to your daughter if she told you her boyfriend does this with her? Would you tel her he’s a good man and is looking out for her interests? If he called her fat and threatened to leave? If this is not brand new behavior then you let yourself be dominated and controlled for a very long time and for what? Were you happy all that time?