Bolder was not from OP. it was from someone else. I'm OP. We have plenty of money but I can ask any questions here I want. |
Still seems hard to argue that you should care about what happens to your money two generations down the line. Especially after the kid whose college you paid for has already (a) used the money to pay for their education and (b) died himself! |
Someone's afraid that your overfunding of a 529 might go on to educate your dead son's wife's grandchildren (who could well be your grandchildren)? Yeah, we overfund our kids' accounts and I lose zero sleep over this scenario playing out after I'm dead. Or ever. |
| 2 kids with 280K each, plus they each have pre-paid state educations. Hope it's enough. Leftovers go the grandkids. |
Great for you but that's not the intent we have with our money. |
I'm not sure I believe this. |
| I wish I had this problem. We have 3 kids, and will be really fortunate to save $100k for each of them. |
The only way you can prevent this horrible scenario is to forget 529's and trusts, and pay your kids' expenses directly. All remaining money should be spent by you, or buried with you upon your death, to prevent any outsiders from getting their grubby hands on that cash. |
Thanks to generous grandparents, we have $300,000 in each of the fund of our 3 kids (ages 7, 12, and 14). It seems like too much. I wonder if anyone ever just pays the 10 percent penalty if there is money left over, once college and grad school are paid for? Or do you just pass it down to future generations, which is also a great idea. |
The name of this child from the first marriage? Adolf Hitler. There. You have literally just paid for a fancy education for Adolf Hitler. Happy now? |
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She's still dead. After you've passed on your wealth to the next generation you need to cut the strings a bit. We aren't talking about millions of $ here, we are talking about some money left in a 529 account. The son and his 2 children got college educations. Seems like that's enough. |
| If he'd been able to stay in school things might have gone differently for all of us. |
You only pay the 10% returns over time, not for the original amount of money added in by grandparents. (so it's bad but not so bad) |
You're completely discounting the INTENT of the person who EARNED the money to begin with. This is no different from prenup planning, especially related to second marriages when one has kids already. To discount someone's intent because they will be dead is not appropriate. That's what a will, trust, prenup, etc. is for. |