Meant to post this here: PP unfortunately, has the competitive "put other's choices and opportunities down" type attitude that you will find is very prevalent in the "art" world. Just ignore pp, there are some very sensible posts here, OP. |
| Don't know if SCAD has theater, but I've heard it's a rip-off and not well-regarded. Started by a couple who used students to renovate old houses as part of their "classes." Savannah liked it because they were improving the city. Now it's huge. |
| If your child wants to major in art, he should. I majored in an art and went to law school later. Nothing is forever and lots of people major in things they don't end up doing for a living. |
| Pp here. I know tons of artists who make a living. In arts related fields and never receiv d support from their parents. Some people are risk averse and can't think outside of their bubble. |
Yes, people tend to be risk averse when they cannot afford the consequences. |
Community college is a great starter choice for many kids in this situation. My husband had terrible grades in high school, primarily because of outside interests. He did 2 years at a community college working as a theater tech for school and outside productions that rented the school's theater space. Then went on to a well-recognized state u and is now making a great living in an unrelated field (got a liberal arts degree). Think broadly and encourage your son to ramp up his resume in his field, working on semi-professional productions if he can, being a camp counselor at a theater summer camp, etc. Good luck. |
Why not? |
Cannot afford in what sense? I am the poster you quote. A lot of my artsy friends make a living in the arts without parental help. When they first started out, they were living hand to mouth for sure, but so what? Now they make decent amounts of money. Not rich for sure, but happy. They make a lot less than I do as a lawyer, but they are probably happier. It's all about priorities and choices. I also think it's about doing what you want to do and not having regrets later. One of my kids is a great artists, but is too risk averse to choose it as a major. I won't push her to go into art, but I won't discourage it either. She'd find a way to get by if that's what she wanted. |
You can't imagine why a poor family might see borrowing money to send a slacker with a 'c' average to an expensive program to get a degree that might not significantly increase employment options as an unacceptable risk? |
Because a 4 yr degree would stretch out to a 6 yr degree, and this would not be good for him, especially due to his ADHD. |
Perhaps in that scenario, but that wasn't what was presented and your scenario presents all of the worst. BTW, though, a "slacker with a 'c' average" might actually be a great art/performance student. Standard school isn't the be all and end all of someone's life. People who don't do well in high school often excel in other areas, such as art. Your "slacker" might actually be better off in art school than another (perhaps) not so great academic college where "slackers" can get in. There are many different paths. |
Community college is often not a good option for arts majors as many (most?) schools require work to occur on campus for the BFA. OP -- if you are still reading this thread -- I suggest reading the Theatre college major forum on College Confidential. DCUM posters in general do not have much expertise in non-STEM majors. |