ddintysons
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I'm looking for a girlfriend.
Where are you looking? Online? At happy hour? Via friends? At Harris Teeter when you are there?
Please tell us.
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ddintysons
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Right now I have a FWB. We escort each other to events, see movies together and try to make ourselves available when the other is doing something where having a date/companion is helpful. We often have sex and sometimes we just get together to have sex.
I would love to have a relationship like this one. To be with somebody I cared about enought to have sex with and see for dates, etc.
Even better if she had a high sex drive and wanted to make lots of time for us to have sex.
Ladies - before you start a situtation like this one (i.e., a true FWB) do ask if he is having sex with anyone else? Most of the women I have dated have said either: 1) if we are having sex I want to be your only partner (less an ultimatum and more just rule of the relationship); or 2) nothing.
As far as rule of the relationship, I have felt that their request was simply "I do not want to have sex with you if you are having sex with other women." I thought it was a fair enough request in that I could either agree or move on down the road.
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ddintysons
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I don't need to clean up after somebody else or do his laundry or write his thank you notes, or otherwise take on responsibility for another adult.
Men my age (50+) should be able to pick up after themselves, do their own laundry (or pay someone to do it), and write any note (thank you or otherwise) needed. If they cannot do these simple things, they are not adult but a very, very, very old child.
With an AARP card.
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