What do you think if a woman is Bi?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you're a lesbian or a straight man, what do you think when you find out a woman is bisexual?

incredibly hot. huge turn on and possibility of realizing the fantasy of amazing and regular threesomes

(male here)

Another male here and I think you're vastly overestimating the odds of a threesome happening. You're assuming that a bi woman will be less possessive (that's not exactly the right word but you get the idea) of you than a hetero woman which, IME, isn't the case.

[Anonymous]

Someone who wants to be the center of attention

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Someone who wants to be the center of attention

I'm quiet, shy, hate being the center of attention. Very bi. Try again. Maybe ask people what their lives are like as bi people before you make assumptions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Someone who wants to be the center of attention

I'm quiet, shy, hate being the center of attention. Very bi. Try again. Maybe ask people what their lives are like as bi people before you make assumptions.

NP here but when I was in high school and college I would tend to agree with the above poster. It seemed like a lot of females that identified as bi did so in very outward ways to get attention (i.e. making out with other females at parties).

Back to the OP though, I'm not sure if this is the answer you're looking for but I probably wouldn't date someone that was bi. I think it's a fairly small slice of the population that identifies as bi so it's not a selection choice that impacts much in the end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gotta love them. Those short haircuts, boyish figures, husky voices.

What a load of silly stereotypes. You must not get around much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Someone who wants to be the center of attention

I'm quiet, shy, hate being the center of attention. Very bi. Try again. Maybe ask people what their lives are like as bi people before you make assumptions.

NP here but when I was in high school and college I would tend to agree with the above poster. It seemed like a lot of females that identified as bi did so in very outward ways to get attention (i.e. making out with other females at parties).

Back to the OP though, I'm not sure if this is the answer you're looking for but I probably wouldn't date someone that was bi. I think it's a fairly small slice of the population that identifies as bi so it's not a selection choice that impacts much in the end.

OH YEAH I forgot adults always act the same as they did when they were in highschool and college!!! Silly me!!

[Anonymous]

I had a bi girlfriend who could peg me like I imagine a guy would (not that I'm looking for a guy to do that). The have a little bit extra testosterone and can flip masculine and feminine in seconds. I miss her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Giggedy.

Giggedy, Giggedy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you're a lesbian or a straight man, what do you think when you find out a woman is bisexual?

I don't think anything - her sexuality has nothing to do with her personality/character.

Huh? I'd say bisexuality is a pretty damn important facet of a person's personality. A lot of people (gay and straight) are not attracted to bisexuals and would want to have such information from the very beginning of a relationship.

I agree that it has no bearing on assessment of character.

Oh really? Wow can we examine this further? The American Psychological Association defines personality as "individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving" - so based on this you're saying that if a woman is for all intents and purposes an evil bitch and that's her personality, then her sexuality is an important facet with regards to the severity of her bitchiness...is that your rationale? So a heterosexual woman is an evil bitch but a bisexual would be some kind of SUPERevil bitch is that the idea here?

What an oddly intense response and overreaction. My point was that bisexuality is a critical component of a person's identity and thus will influence their personality to some degree. No one here said anything about bitchiness. Bizarre. My statement was not a perforator one about bisexuality.

[Anonymous]

I suspect that a large percentage of women have at least bi tendencies, even if many have never acted on them. I'm definitely a little bit bi, but happily married to a man for 14 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I suspect that a large percentage of women have at least bi tendencies, even if many have never acted on them. I'm definitely a little bit bi, but happily married to a man for 14 years.

+1. Would love to explore with a woman (think about it a lot actually) but have no idea how/where to even start.

[Anonymous]

Bi is a huge plus and if I were ever single again, I would treasure that quality in women. It's a sign that a woman is dialed into what she wants sexually and isn't afraid to express it, which is opposite of my DW. Plus, chance of three some or open marriage or anything that is a break from monogamy

[Anonymous]

Indecisive in this and everything in life

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't have any problem with it - to each their own. But I'm a believer in monogamy so a bi needs to pick a partner and stick with him/her.

Yup.