Who should Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck date?

[Anonymous]

He looked really happy with Gwyneth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He looked really happy with Gwyneth.

He did, but he was also probably blottoed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He looked really happy with Gwyneth.

In Gwyneth he thought he found his intellectual and artistic peer. It helped that she did not worship him and was not a doormat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He looked really happy with Gwyneth.

No, he did not. No one is happy with Gwyneth as she whines, constantly.

[Anonymous]

They should bet back together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer - needs someone stable, an older (50s) wealthy man not in the entertainment industry
Ben - needs some excitement in his life, someone younger, non-traditional and independent. Scarlett Johansson, maybe Rihanna. But they shouldn't get serious. He should never get married again.

Agree with all this. He is not marriage material.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer - needs someone stable, an older (50s) wealthy man not in the entertainment industry
Ben - needs some excitement in his life, someone younger, non-traditional and independent. Scarlett Johansson, maybe Rihanna. But they shouldn't get serious. He should never get married again.

Why would a wealthy, younger celeb want an old, bloated, substance abuser? Except for the ones who like dealing with losers, like Katy Perry.

Those women aren't interested in LTRs. And Ben Affleck cleans up well when he wants to. Plus he's apparently well-endowed.

But he rarely wants to clean up. Katy perry is a good suggestion actually. Her career is slowing down so she might be more interested. Also...don't overestimate Rihanna's taste in men...

[Anonymous]

Maybe they should just focus on their kids until they go to college.

[Anonymous]

How about Michael Vartan for Jennifer?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have this theory that Ben Affleck is pretty obviously a self involved narcissistic hot mess. People like that do not generally do well in long term relationships or in situations where they have to give to others.

I think from both his relatonships with the Jennifers he was utterly bored and felt suffocated. These women were clearly gaga about him and were all in. He liked the chase but once he had them wrapped around his finger, he got bored.

His body language/videos with both J.Lo and J. Garner are painful to watch because they are obviously gushing over him and he can't be bothered.









I get the sense that he thinks he's this deep intellectual and J.Lo is too low class for him.

J. Garner too mumsy and middle class. She is safe and predictable and adores him. But he also adores himself!





I think he probably felt the most invest with Gwyneth Paltrow. She is equally as self absorbed and actually during their tiem together did the push pull he usually pulls on women.






Gwyneth has never lacked self esteem. She thinks very highly of herself and can hold her own around him and even dare put him in his place! Apparently she really tried to class him up and guide and direct his artistic success. From the way he talks about her its obvious he holds her in high regard. For once he was not good enough for HER.

Both the Jennifers were gaga for him and he treated them like dirt.

Great analysis!

[Anonymous]

I still think he would be happiest with his brother

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have this theory that Ben Affleck is pretty obviously a self involved narcissistic hot mess. People like that do not generally do well in long term relationships or in situations where they have to give to others.

I think from both his relatonships with the Jennifers he was utterly bored and felt suffocated. These women were clearly gaga about him and were all in. He liked the chase but once he had them wrapped around his finger, he got bored.

His body language/videos with both J.Lo and J. Garner are painful to watch because they are obviously gushing over him and he can't be bothered.









I get the sense that he thinks he's this deep intellectual and J.Lo is too low class for him.

J. Garner too mumsy and middle class. She is safe and predictable and adores him. But he also adores himself!





I think he probably felt the most invest with Gwyneth Paltrow. She is equally as self absorbed and actually during their tiem together did the push pull he usually pulls on women.






Gwyneth has never lacked self esteem. She thinks very highly of herself and can hold her own around him and even dare put him in his place! Apparently she really tried to class him up and guide and direct his artistic success. From the way he talks about her its obvious he holds her in high regard. For once he was not good enough for HER.

Both the Jennifers were gaga for him and he treated them like dirt.

+1

[Anonymous]

We all have issues but both would be tough for a long term relationship:

Hi: I'm Jen. I have been divorced twice and have three small children. Ben is the love of my life and you will always be compared to him.

Hi: I'm Ben. I have three small kids, a number of flop movies, and issues with gambling and substance abuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We all have issues but both would be tough for a long term relationship:

Hi: I'm Jen. I have been divorced twice and have three small children. Ben is the love of my life and you will always be compared to him.

Hi: I'm Ben. I have three small kids, a number of flop movies, and issues with gambling and substance abuse.

Jen = old, baggage.

Ben = filthy rich A list actor/producer who can get really handsome if he works out and tamps down the drinking (bloated face).

Ben can land just about any woman he wants.

[Anonymous]

The pictures with jlo and jenn seem like he was only in the relationships for the fame. Jlo was no 1 star in the world at the time -- jenn made him seem like a wholesome family man. Both were probably bullshit, at least to him, for PR.