| I don't think it matters in the long run. My DD always read above reading level, and now in high school is on par with academics and test taking is hard, she studies and tries but seems to lack memory skills. She was praised too much for being so smart so early, and it backfired with her thinking if something is too hard, it is impossible. It is getting much better, since we have been working for the last couple of years on developing open minded approach to learning. |
How are their math skills, EQ, if they dictated a story- what would it look like? |
| I think the most important thing is the kid likes and enjoys reading. That will go far! |
He is in 1st grade. Things will change. Have him play an instrument. Band is a great activity in MS and HS. |
He's only in first grade!! |
Hmm. Has she been tested for inattentive ADHD? Because telling a kid they're smart, instead of praising effort is mostly about forging character. If grades are affected and the child is making a effort, then it's not because they were told they were smart, but maybe because there are underlying learning disabilities or inattention (which causes disorganization, processing speed issues and working memory problems). |
A fair number of 1st graders 'test' a couple to a few grades above in reading, which is essentially showing they've mastered the skills of decoding ... and now they are in the category of comprehension. For many kids that doesn't fully click until end of second. Some are later. (Moving from 'learning to read' to 'reading to learn'). A first grader testing a couple grades above essentially means the kids has hit a 'fluent' reading threshold. While earlier reading doesn't necessarily correlate to much necessarily - it gives the kid the ability to now soak things up and really get into stories and ideas and areas of interest. So it's something that you can cultivate and focus on. If he's showing interest, you can feed that! Reading about things is a great way to find passions and ideas.... General would recommend to cultivate/encourage/be enthusiastic for anything he shows interest in, without pushing too much. First grade is really young still. And some of the kids who seem to excel at things in first will keep thriving in those, but for many others it will change, diminish relatively or move on to something new. -- another child development researcher |
| We've had two different experiences. One child was really ahead in reading at the end of kindergarten (baseline DRA versus end-of-year were kind of insane) and is a strong reader headed into AAP. The other child was a very early reader and excels at decoding, but that child is also autistic and has had a terrible time getting the comprehension side of reading. This gets worse every year now that the "reading to learn" period has set in and they have difficulty parsing information from text. |
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That's very interesting. It doesn't seem like DD has social problems. She has lots of friends despite being introverted and shy around adults. No ADD diagnosis either. Reading is her hobby--like other kids with minecraft or soccer. she sets her alarm to wake up an hour earlier to read and reads for an hour at bedtime. And like the op's ds this is the only thing she's really good at in the sense she can particularly enjoy the activity because of her high ability. She struggles in sports and music and art. And she does not like competition. The point of my original post was that I find reading levels meaningless. One teacher may hold a kid back. Another may inflate the score. The most meaningful results were from the university project. |
| Op here- yes I do encourage my kid's interests and find him books to read I think he would enjoy, take him to the library often, etc. |
Why not just try liking and accepting him? Your comments are consistently about being disappointed in how not amazing he is. |
| DD did not read with any fluency until Grade 2. Slowly improved through primary grades and became a voracious reader in junior high and high school. Very successful AP Literature class level now. I still have the ancient Dick and Jane book we resorted to for help! |
+1 Please. Every child is different. I have a sibling who was reading several hours a day at a young age. She was very popular in high school and went to HPY where she continued to have a ton of friends. |
+1 |