Text in husband's phone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So your DH is guilty because of a text his no-good friend wrote? That hardly seems fair.

Now if you're husband responded and asked to be set up with a lady friend, different story..

I agree to a certain point, but disturbing is the fact he's blabbing about their sex life. I'd put my foot down there, probably time to let that friend go as suggested.

Uh huh. Like women don't talk to their friends about their sex lives. In fact, I guarantee you women talk about sex to each other much more than men do.

[Anonymous]

Cultural background? There are plenty of cultures where men go with their friends to visit sex workers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That friend has to go.

If he lets you decide who his friends are, he is a disgusting weakling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So your DH is guilty because of a text his no-good friend wrote? That hardly seems fair.

Now if you're husband responded and asked to be set up with a lady friend, different story..

I agree to a certain point, but disturbing is the fact he's blabbing about their sex life. I'd put my foot down there, probably time to let that friend go as suggested.

Uh huh. Like women don't talk to their friends about their sex lives. In fact, I guarantee you women talk about sex to each other much more than men do.

MUCH MORE!!!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait, so you thought your husband wanted to get butt fucked?

No, she thinks friend wants to set him up with a woman willing to f him.

That is what this friend is doing. Pretty obvious. OP sorry but you have problems. Obviously your husband was telling this loser too much about not having sex. I would be horrified he was telling so called friends this stuff. I would also make sure this
guy is out of your life and dh's. With marriage things change. You both want to have supportive couple friends. If someone single or part of a couple is trying to undermine your relationship they get 86'd.

Now as for your husband, doesn't matter about the sex. This is part of the marriage, and if one is sick or pregnant, he has 2 hands. What happens if you got cancer? You are not his sperm receptacle. Your health is number one, and if he's not supportive...then you have a much larger problem.

There is absolutely no reason - and especially no "health reason" - she couldn't give him BJs, and absolutely no reason he should go without them and masturbate instead.

She's pregnant, she's not paralyzed, idiot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait, so you thought your husband wanted to get butt fucked?

No, she thinks friend wants to set him up with a woman willing to f him.

That is what this friend is doing. Pretty obvious. OP sorry but you have problems. Obviously your husband was telling this loser too much about not having sex. I would be horrified he was telling so called friends this stuff. I would also make sure this
guy is out of your life and dh's. With marriage things change. You both want to have supportive couple friends. If someone single or part of a couple is trying to undermine your relationship they get 86'd.

Now as for your husband, doesn't matter about the sex. This is part of the marriage, and if one is sick or pregnant, he has 2 hands. What happens if you got cancer? You are not his sperm receptacle. Your health is number one, and if he's not supportive...then you have a much larger problem.

There is absolutely no reason - and especially no "health reason" - she couldn't give him BJs, and absolutely no reason he should go without them and masturbate instead.

She's pregnant, she's not paralyzed, idiot.

What if - gasp! - she doesn't want to?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:WTF, OP and the PP's are nuts. His friend is likely asking if he either wants to get drunk or if he wants to get beat - badly - at a game of cards. His friend is not trying to set him up to get laid. Some of you have insanely wild imaginations that are not set in reality, at all.

Are you her husband?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait, so you thought your husband wanted to get butt fucked?

No, she thinks friend wants to set him up with a woman willing to f him.

That is what this friend is doing. Pretty obvious. OP sorry but you have problems. Obviously your husband was telling this loser too much about not having sex. I would be horrified he was telling so called friends this stuff. I would also make sure this
guy is out of your life and dh's. With marriage things change. You both want to have supportive couple friends. If someone single or part of a couple is trying to undermine your relationship they get 86'd.

Now as for your husband, doesn't matter about the sex. This is part of the marriage, and if one is sick or pregnant, he has 2 hands. What happens if you got cancer? You are not his sperm receptacle. Your health is number one, and if he's not supportive...then you have a much larger problem.

There is absolutely no reason - and especially no "health reason" - she couldn't give him BJs, and absolutely no reason he should go without them and masturbate instead.

She's pregnant, she's not paralyzed, idiot.

Pregnancies are all different, and it incurs many changes. That's up to OP if she likes to do something like that or not. Either way, if she's not feeling well none of that will apply. He can use his hands, not a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait, so you thought your husband wanted to get butt fucked?

No, she thinks friend wants to set him up with a woman willing to f him.

That is what this friend is doing. Pretty obvious. OP sorry but you have problems. Obviously your husband was telling this loser too much about not having sex. I would be horrified he was telling so called friends this stuff. I would also make sure this
guy is out of your life and dh's. With marriage things change. You both want to have supportive couple friends. If someone single or part of a couple is trying to undermine your relationship they get 86'd.

Now as for your husband, doesn't matter about the sex. This is part of the marriage, and if one is sick or pregnant, he has 2 hands. What happens if you got cancer? You are not his sperm receptacle. Your health is number one, and if he's not supportive...then you have a much larger problem.

There is absolutely no reason - and especially no "health reason" - she couldn't give him BJs, and absolutely no reason he should go without them and masturbate instead.

She's pregnant, she's not paralyzed, idiot.

What if - gasp! - she doesn't want to?

Ha! I laughed at that to, talk about idiot!

How about she's tired and doesn't feel like it. It's marriage, not slavery. You don't get all your needs met on demand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That friend has to go.

If he lets you decide who his friends are, he is a disgusting weakling.

The fact she called that friend shady is very telling.

The marriage comes before friends especially if there are "shady" ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 15 weeks pregnant and we stopped being intimate due to heavy spotting. I just went to change a video on his phone for my daughter and seen a new text pop up from his shady, no good friend saying "If you want to get f*#$ let me know"

I mentioned it to DH and he claims he means getting beat playing him in cards....mhm....opinions?

"shady, no good friend". You're having a family, time to get rid of these types and move forward OP.

[Anonymous]

Do you have a reason to read his texts?

This is not off to a good start.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have a reason to read his texts?

This is not off to a good start.

Why? My dh can read mine and vice versa. I'd be alarmed if someone said I couldn't. He can also use my phone anytime he wants. OP explained why if you'd care to read.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wait, so you thought your husband wanted to get butt fucked?

No, she thinks friend wants to set him up with a woman willing to f him.

That is what this friend is doing. Pretty obvious. OP sorry but you have problems. Obviously your husband was telling this loser too much about not having sex. I would be horrified he was telling so called friends this stuff. I would also make sure this
guy is out of your life and dh's. With marriage things change. You both want to have supportive couple friends. If someone single or part of a couple is trying to undermine your relationship they get 86'd.

Now as for your husband, doesn't matter about the sex. This is part of the marriage, and if one is sick or pregnant, he has 2 hands. What happens if you got cancer? You are not his sperm receptacle. Your health is number one, and if he's not supportive...then you have a much larger problem.

There is absolutely no reason - and especially no "health reason" - she couldn't give him BJs, and absolutely no reason he should go without them and masturbate instead.

She's pregnant, she's not paralyzed, idiot.

What if - gasp! - she doesn't want to?

Ha! I laughed at that to, talk about idiot!

How about she's tired and doesn't feel like it. It's marriage, not slavery. You don't get all your needs met on demand.

No shit. I'm sure all these "step up the BJs" guys give killer head after having spent the day barfing themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So he was complaining to his friend about his pregnant wife not giving him sex? I find that disgusting and shady.

+1 you've got a husband problem

Where do you see that?