how to tell friend I'm not coming to her wedding

[Anonymous]

I missed the wedding of a very close friend because I had a nursing infant and it would have been hard to get away, and the wedding of another close friend because I was pregnant (high-risk pregnancy, my ongyn told me not to be more than 2 hours away from a hospital with a high-level NICU for the last 3 months,, everything turned out well, fortunately).

Neither friend was offended or took it personally