Anonymous wrote:We nearly turned down Beauvoir for a "less coveted" school, precisely because we worried about the so-called snootiness factor and not fitting in. DH and I come from modest backgrounds and public schools and frankly were a little intimidated by the place. I have to say I'm so glad we went for it anyway. What we found were a lot of parents just like ourselves, alongside a lot of parents from privileged backgrounds...and that no one really cares what your background or status is. It has been easy to make friends and feel comfortable there. More importantly, it has been a great place for my kids, both academically and socially. And it is indeed incredibly diverse, in so many ways.
DH, is that you?! Nah, ever since the Beauvoir Scandal thread died down, I know you no longer lurk on DCUM. Anyway, if you're not my DH, you are indeed a kindred spirit. We, actually, I, wanted to turn down Beauvoir for a "less coveted" school for all of the same reasons, as well as the fact that it was a very, very expensive school. 3 years after the fact, I count my blessings that I listened to my husband for once. We are very happy at Beauvoir. We love everything about it. As for the other families, while many do come from privileged backgrounds, and most do have seemingly vast financial resources, the snootiness factor is almost non-existent. By the way, not to hijack this thread, as there is another thread out there on the topic, but we are financial aid recipients. It's a pittance, really, though without it we could not afford the after-school care that allows me to work. If I did not work we would not be able to scrape up enough to pay 85% of the 26K tuition. Thank you Beauvoir and all who make this possible.
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